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No Matter What Do Not Contact Him First!

No Matter What Do Not Contact Him First!

You are out with your friends and you meet a guy and of course you give him your phone number and he gives you his. Now, with this day and age of texting, LinkedIn, and Facebook it is hard to imagine a guy taking more than a day to contact you, but be patient! Do not under any circumstances contact him FIRST! Men like to have the upper hand no matter what the relationship books tells you on how it's ok for women to contact men don't do it! 

Are You In Love with a Criminal?

Are You In Love with a Criminal?

“The greatest crimes do not arise from a want of feeling for others, but from an over-sensibility for ourselves and an over-indulgence to our own desires.” —Edmund Burke   Beware of Mr. Wonderful. Really? But isn’t that the very thing that all women are looking for? A man who moves us, charms us, connects with us. Someone who is perfectly romantic, funny, rich, charming, friendly, outgoing, ambitious, says all the right things. Someone who loves kids and animals, pays attention to us, doesn’t take us for granted.

This is Your Brain on Drugs

This is Your Brain on Drugs

“Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” —Sam Keen In the movies, love stories often depict a beautiful, but frustrating dance wherein our hero and heroine keep missing each other. Something always keeps them apart. A job. Children. Fate. Maybe something more science-fiction-ish keeps them apart, like a galaxy or time travel. But in the end, fate always brings them together. They kiss—or make mad, passionate love—and the world buzzes, alive with chemicals, with connection, with love.

Stress with a Capital “O”

Stress with a Capital “O”

“Stress is basically a disconnection from the earth, a forgetting of the breath. Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency. Nothing is that important. Just lie down.” —Natalie Goldberg Let's talk about good and bad stress. Yes, some stress is actually good for us. It keeps us motivated and moving toward goals and dreams. It keeps us on our toes when are threatened in the world. It keeps us productive and prevents us from dropping the ball on our real-world responsibilities.

There is a Code That Leads Men Into Infidelity

There is a Code That Leads Men Into Infidelity

There is a code that leads men into infidelity…a series of outlooks and perspectives that are impressed onto a man beginning at boyhood. These misconceptions are “Men’s Code,” attitudes that young boys learn and adopt from an early age regarding women and gender, sex and relationships, fidelity and family.