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Dealing With the Isolation of a Breakup

Dealing With the Isolation of a Breakup

The fact of the matter is, it’s ok to feel bad after a break up.  Especially if you have been together for a long time.  You have shared everything from checking accounts to the same tastes in DVR recordings.  You have to allow yourself time to heal.   Whatever reason the break up occurred , whether it was one sided or not, you are left with half an empty closet where before you didn’t have enough space for your “too many shoes.”   That extra set of dishes you kept in

How To Have A Great Therapy Experience And Meet Your Goals

How To Have A Great Therapy Experience And Meet Your Goals

In the time since becoming a therapist, I have yet to have one client ask me where I received my master's degree, or where I did my training, or a word about my licenses. What clients want to know is, "Can you help me? Can you offer me anything at all that will bring me some relief from the pain I'm in?" Some also have other questions they may or may not be as likely to articulate, questions such as "Are you going to judge and reject me if you know the 'real' me? Are you going to understand me?

Bad Boys

Bad Boys

When a man finds a woman interesting and attractive, he will usually make the first move and approach her to speak with her. Women do not usually speak with every man that wants to buy them a drink, but most women will if he is a “bad boy.” Players, playboys, heart breakers; what ever you want to call this type of man: this is the type of guy that some women seem to be intrigued by. But what exactly does the bad boy possess that the nice guy doesn’t?

Mars Venus is Walking in Her shoes

Mars Venus is Walking in Her shoes

When our relationships begin to fail us, do we become more in-tune with the other person, or do we tend to shift to communicating in styles that are automatic? When we become more stressed out, is it easier to listen to the other person, or does the voice in our head over power our best intentions, because we want our needs met first?

Are You Dating An Addict? 3 Ways To Cope [EXPERT]
Unfortunately, you can't force someone into sobriety.

Are You Dating An Addict? 3 Ways To Cope

No person can actually cure another person's addiction; they have to recognize they have lost power over their own behavior and recognize the need to change. There are some experts who will recommend you either make them quit or you leave. This may work temporarily, but if the motivation to change is not internally motivated, there will be no lasting change.

  BULLETIN: MALE EJACULATIONS MUST NOT BE SQUANDERED

BULLETIN: MALE EJACULATIONS MUST NOT BE SQUANDERED

As I’ve stated before, male sexuality has been incorrectly focused on the shortsighted goal of ejaculation for too long. To imply that male “climax” is the highest expression of male sexual power and virility is one of the most destructive myths in modern sexology. Unlike women, when men ejaculate they lose vital life-force energy.

Mars Venus Coaching Explains the Man Cave.

Mars Venus Coaching Explains the Man Cave.

We live in a world right now that is fast paced. The leaps technology makes in just a year are staggering, aren’t they? How many people have just one email anymore? How many people use their cell phones not only to talk, but to text, email, use GPS, surf the internet, listen to music, and schedule appointments? How many people were using Nooks or iPads last year in March verses this year? What about using Twitter, Linked In, and Facebook accounts? I first read Dr.