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Would You Speak to Others the Way You Speak to Yourself?

Would You Speak to Others the Way You Speak to Yourself?

Very often when we speak with spouses, partners, friends and others, we shower them with compliments, praise and approval. It makes them feel proud, valued and respected and makes us feel good as well. We recognize the benefit of positive speech, we see the happiness it brings to them and we feel good about bringing this joy to others. So if we know all this, why is it so hard to speak this way to ourselves?

Men’s and Women’s Sexual Differences - Part Two

Men’s and Women’s Sexual Differences - Part Two

Please remember to read Part One - What Women Wish Men Knew in the Bedroom, which is already published here:  http://www.yourtango.com/experts/richard-drobnick-mars-venus-counseling-...   In the bedroom, it is obvious that men and women are different physically, but we may not realize how different we are emotionally. It is only through understanding and accepting our less obvious differences that we can achieve sexual intimacy and great sex.

Read, Sing & Talk To Your Baby (EXPERT)

Read, Sing & Talk To Your Baby (EXPERT)

Read, Sing and Talk To Your Baby When babies make cooing sounds, we make cooing sounds in return. When they smile, we smile and then they smile and it goes on and on. Our loving joy or job is to provide prompt response to his needs, consistent care and love. Hopefully, we will share opportunities for activities which will help move and develop muscles including the brain..

18 Ways To Beat Complacency In A Long-Term Relationship [EXPERT]
Are you a little bored?

18 Ways To Beat Complacency In A Long-Term Relationship

Is your long-term relationship feeling a little too ... long-term? Over time, it's only natural for couples to become quite comfortable with one another, but when things become too routine, too monotonous or too mundane, it's time to shake things up. According to our Irresistible You survey, 37% of YourTango readers polled agree that trying new things together is the best way to for couples to avoid becoming lazy or complacent in their relationships. Wanna know what our experts think you should do to beat complacency? Check out their suggestions below.

Do You Know How To Visualize Something You Want?

Do You Know How To Visualize Something You Want?

A year ago, I had some bumps in the road in regards to my Health. These were unexpected and serious. I could have let my vibrational energy fall but instead I asked my surgeon if I could have 60 days to use energy management techniques and visualization to see if it would help. She agreed and we scheduled surgery for the end of those 60 days.

4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates [EXPERT]
What does your body language say about you?

4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates

The way that a person walks, talks and moves can speak volumes to their character and ultimately be a deciding factor in whether or not you choose to approach them. Is your body language sending the right message to your potential suitors?

How To Talk To Your Kids About The Colorado Massacre [EXPERT]
The tragedy in Colorado offers some important lessons.

How To Talk To Your Kids About The Colorado Massacre

We generally do not associate murder and mayhem with movies. Nor should we have to. But, I am always searching for teachable moments — even in life's most unexpected moments, no matter how wondrous or gruesome. It is my life's work and passion to identify them. And so, I suggest the following to parents:

Is Fear Of Rejection Hurting Your Dating Opportunities? [EXPERT]
Nobody likes a scaredy cat.

Is Fear Of Rejection Hurting Your Dating Opportunities?

We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I'm sure you've encountered your share of "pingers" — the disappearing men, needy men and players as you meet single men. I get it, and you belong to a large, loving sisterhood. But it's not only us gals who have dating disasters ... Men have their fair share of icky, confusing, ego-crushing experiences too. Previously, I've introduced you to The Princess and The 18 Year Old but today, you'll learn about the Scaredy Cat. Deep down, the Scaredy Cat feels unworthy and afraid to receive love and attention, especially from potential romantic partners. She has been wounded by past relationships and hasn't been able to move on emotionally. While she carries these wounds below the surface and aren't there for all to see, given the proper trigger (like a man not calling exactly when he says he will), her fear can take center stage at a moment's notice.