Lately, a group of my friends have been feuding for one reason or another. A lot of backstabbing and talking behind each others backs have been occuring. Why is it always with females? Most of my life I have surrounded myself with men, because they are less drama, well most of them. So why can't women be the same?
A man who is a user is truly not interested in you–only what you can offer. All his initial questions relate to your job, career and income status. Do you have a car? What kind of car is it? What year, make and model? Do you have kids? Who lives with you? These are all probing questions a man with a user mentality will ask, in order to see where he can fit in and take advantage of you.
Do you remember in grade school when our coaches would teach us about our competition? Sometimes we would watch videos, or even go to one of their games… all to do what exactly? Gain an edge. Recently, one of my girlfriends asked me if I knew what I was up against in the dating world, and honestly I couldn’t give her a solid answer because all I had were assumptions gained from the messages I received from users on the dating websites. Some examples are as follows:
You’re reading this because you’re fed up, and need some ideas for how to get more physical intimacy into your relationship. This leaves you, the man, frustrated – not just physically, but emotionally as well; you feel far away from her, and unloved. If you’re willing to read further, I have some ideas you can try that very well might turn things around for you. But first – why doesn’t she want sex as much as you do?
1. Start from a good place Plan ahead and start your vacation at or below your target weight, or if you’re in the process of slimming down, take off 2 pounds or so the week before you leave. Your vacation is not the time to be playing catch-up. 2. Plan to eat food that is delicious.
We need to become comfortable with the idea that we’re never going to be done. There is never going to be a point where we feel that we’ve checked off all of our boxes, or spent all of the time that we want to with our kids We’re never going to feel completely satisfied with our accomplishments – at least not for longer than a day or two. As we climb the ladder of our own needs it’s important that we can let go of the effort of the lower needs. This is how we can do more with less, and create more quality time in our lives.
By Tara Weng for GalTime As a life-long New Englander allergies have become a part of my life. Seasonally,I try to get by with over-the-counter remedies and avoidance of certain flora and fauna. Unfortunately, I've discovered that my usual trigger list and my home arsenal might just have to be expanded.