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Depression: Caused By Chemicals Or Your Own Behavior? [EXPERT]
Depression doesn't just happen.

Depression: Caused By Chemicals Or Your Own Behavior?

The common belief when it comes to depression is that it is something over which we have no control. Things happen, and we have no choice but to become depressed. Some have argued it's a disease with brain chemistry out of whack and others believe there may be a genetic predisposition. I have a different theory based on my work with clients; my study of the legendary work of Dr. William Glasser and the subsequent development of my own process, called InsideOut Empowerment™.

Single? 30 Ways To Spend Your Weekend [EXPERT]
What's on your calendar?

Single? 30 Ways To Spend Your Weekend

When I was single, I had a love-hate relationship with weekends. I loved having the extra time off work, but I hated that I did not have a man to spend the time with. The truth is that I did not need a man to have fun or accomplish something meaningful. In many cases, I just needed "me time." Here are 30 fun activities to try!

3 Ways To Have The Sexiest Summer Ever

3 Ways To Have The Sexiest Summer Ever

There is just something so undeniably sexy about summer.  The sultry days, long steamy nights and plethora of shirtless men everywhere you look sets the stage for quite a sexy couple of months.  Here is how to make the most of your time in the sun and have the sexiest summer of your life in the process.

Why You Need To Breakup With Your Vibrator

Why You Need To Breakup With Your Vibrator

Okay, before you get all angry… …thinking I’m taking away one of your favorite toys—hear me out. I’ve told women that I’ve coached to break up with their vibrator and they look at me like I’m asking them to stop playing with the greatest toy that’s ever been invented. They act like a little kid that had their Big Wheel taken away, or their Lite-Brite taken away, or one of their favorite stuffed animals—maybe Elmo—taken away from them.

Romance Or Friendship? 18 Differences Between The Two [EXPERT]
Are you willing to take the risk?

Romance Or Friendship? 18 Differences Between The Two

As his woman, you could potentially get on his nerves. But as his best friend, he would love you until the end of time. Do what you must, but please consider the difference between best friend and girlfriend before you screw up your friendship. Here are 18 subtle relationship tips to check to see if you are ready to cross that line.

When To Scream: "Stop The Wedding!"

When To Scream: "Stop The Wedding!"

Getting ready for the "Big Day" is exciting, and nerve-racking. You want everything to be perfect on the day you will commit to spend the rest of your life with that one special person. Or at least that's how the tradition was intended; but with the divorce rates being announced in the media frequently, you know you really only have a 50/50 chance. Here might be why.

Use The Best Side Of Your Brain To Choose A Love Match

Use The Best Side Of Your Brain To Choose A Love Match

  Your choice of your best love match may be determined by the side of your brain you use to choose dates. Discover the difference between left or right brain dating. And find out the smartest brain-style of dating that guides you to your best match. What’s the difference between right and left brain dating? Medical researchers who study the brain and behavior report that most of us tend to use one side of our brain more than the other. Left-brained people tend to be logical, analytical, great at math.

7 Of The Worst Ways To Break Up With Your Partner [EXPERT]
Sending your partner a break up text message is a major relationship offense.

7 Of The Worst Ways To Break Up With Your Partner

If you are planning on breaking up with your partner, avoid these seven scenarios and instead choose an alternative method that will pay tribute to the happy moments in your relationship.

It’s Summer, The Season Of Fire!

It’s Summer, The Season Of Fire!

The Five Elements theory makes a strong link between summer, the heart, small intestine, fire, red, joy, laughter, vitality, warmth, growth, speech, the depth of communication, sweating, language, blood, bitter taste, arms, and shoulders. Fire is in our energy every day from 11am to 3pm, which is lunchtime. Thus, in summer, informal lunches with friends or family (joy, communication), especially outdoors (heat), around a barbecue (fire) are particularly suitable!