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Learn how to have better sex in your marriage

Learn how to have better sex in your marriage

Maintaining a healthy sex life is one way that a couple can stay connected to one another. Many times when the relationship gets tough from added stresses in life, it can affect the couple’s sex life. The solution is to make sex a priority, taking the time to work on the sexual intimacy in the relationship will help strengthen the bond between husband and wife.

How a woman can give oral pleasure to her man

How a woman can give oral pleasure to her man

Like the Bill Clinton's of the world, many men think it is not really cheating. The fact still remains that it is cheating going outside the relationship for any sexual pleasure. Why do some men go to great lengths to get oral pleasure from another woman, one main reason is that they are not getting it from their wife or partner. It is difficult to believe that many couples in marriage and long term relationships don't perform oral sex on one another. Oral pleasure for both a man and a woman can be sexual, erotic, fun, sensual and a healthy part of human sexuality.

Unresolved conflict in a relationship

Unresolved conflict in a relationship

Living day to day in a relationship with unresolved conflict is one of the reasons why couples fight over small less important issues. When anger or hurt happens over time in any relationship, with each person harboring unresolved anger it can slowly erode the love over time. Proper communication is the key to resolving conflict along with two people willing to listen to each other and understand. Couples can communicate with each other about what bothers them all day long and still not come to any resolution if the other person does not understand where they are coming from.

What Is Sex Addiction & Can It Be Overcome?

What Is Sex Addiction & Can It Be Overcome?

Sex addiction is a compulsive urge to engage in sexual activity, thoughts, or fantasies in ways that are detrimental to an individual, his or her family, friends, and/or work. It blocks the development of true intimacy in a relationship. Sex addiction is also called sexual dependency or sexual compulsivity. Just because someone likes to masturbate or to have sex frequently doesn’t necessarily mean that he or she is a sex addict or has a problem.

What You Need To Know About Period Sex

What You Need To Know About Period Sex

During that time of month sex is sometimes the last thing on many women's minds! For some of us, it makes us feel dirty, and for others it's just the last thing on our mind. For men, it can be a "hands-off" time or some may still be on the hunt regardless of the timing. Recently, I had a few questions submitted by one man and I thought it would be best to make a video response on clarifying some of the myths: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d23ABvsJkTU

The 3 Most Troublesome Emotions

The 3 Most Troublesome Emotions

Few things give people as much trouble in their relationships as emotions. Not knowing what you feel, and how to express it can make people feel inadequate and confused. Understanding the nature and purpose of emotions, from a body-centered perspective, can assist you in both understanding your feelings, and give you a foundation to speak about them.

Questions To Talk About Before You Marry

Questions To Talk About Before You Marry

You would think that people planning to marry would talk about their loves, hates, needs, desires, futures and deal-breakers. Alas, I’ve talked with clients who have been married for some time only to learn that their partner doesn’t want the kids they’ve been planning on for a lifetime, wants a sexual favor they’re totally not into, doesn’t believe in spending money on the lawn, wants to spend every holiday with their parents, and, let’s just say I could go on. And on. And on.

How to Have a Happy Relationship

How to Have a Happy Relationship

Happy Relationships don't just happen through luck, they are made. To have a happy relationship all you need is a clear intention to create amazing connection and intimacy with your partner, and some simple tools. Focus on your individual health and happiness. Happy relationships exist when each partner feels happy in their own right--when they know how to take care of their own emotional, physical, and mental health, and do so reliably.

How To Tell If You're Addicted To Sex

How To Tell If You're Addicted To Sex

In its basic and natural form (if there has not been physical or emotional damage along the way) human sexual contact feels good, touching feels good, having an orgasm feels good. This is normal and wonderful. Your innate desire for sex and sexual pleasure is not an enemy. Your natural sexual impulse can guide you to finding closeness, connectedness, and intimacy with a partner. However, when sexual urges get misdirected they can become addictive or compulsive, and instead of leading to pleasure and connection, your natural sex drive can lead to suffering.