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21 Ways To Prevent Infidelity In Your Relationship [EXPERT]
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

21 Ways To Prevent Infidelity In Your Relationship

It's impossible to be in a relationship these days without worrying about infidelity. It seems like everywhere we turn, a politician, celebrity or friend is having an affair. So, what can you do to ensure that your man won't cheat on you? Our experts have some practical tips about what you can do to infidelity-proof your relationship. Here they are, in no particular order.

A way with words...

A way with words...

“Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs”  --Pearl Strachan What was your first word? Mummy? Dad? Banana? From day dot we’re pushed, prodded and coached to take in vocabulary and, for the best part, we all get on fine. That is, until we’re challenged to sit down and write A Really Hard Thing. Whether it’s a CV, letter to a friend, competition entry or online dating profile – at the heart of the Really Hard Thing’s success is the words that we choose to use.

Demystified: Uncovering the Secrets Between Men & Women

Demystified: Uncovering the Secrets Between Men & Women

Ever find yourself sitting across from someone of the opposite sex and wondering: Who is this person, and what exactly is going on in their head right now?! Well, instead of locking yourself in a padded room and swearing off the opposite sex completely, you should engage in something a drop more enjoyable! You should come and get… DEMYSTIFIED!! ~ An evening of Celebration, Fun, and Uncovering the Deep Mysteries to dating and relationships! https://www.facebook.com/events/250492581717271/ During this evening, we will:

Infidelity...My Confession...

Infidelity...My Confession...

I have been unfaithful. There; I said it. Perhaps it’s a little shocking? Or titillating? Furthermore, I strongly suspect you too have been similarly unfaithful. Please, consider the following thoughts. We conjure up a meaning when infidelity is spoken of. We imagine trysts, betrayals, families falling apart. This all occurs in lives and relationships and can be so very, very difficult and painful. But it is not this of which I speak.

5 Steps To Escaping An Emotionally Abusive Relationship [EXPERT]
Do you feel trapped?

5 Steps To Escaping An Emotionally Abusive Relationship

If you've ever been in a controlling relationship, you know how easy it is to get caught in its web. It usually starts out with a simple suggestion like, "Do you think that outfit is the best you can do for the banquet tonight?" or "I think you're better off ordering the salad," or "You should get a real job and stop all that nonsense about making it as an artist." His controlling behaviors are never about you. Here are five steps to getting out from under his control.

I’m 40!  Do I have a baby on my own or continue dating and hope..

I’m 40! Do I have a baby on my own or continue dating and hope..

My female clients who just turned 40 years of age and desperately want to have a baby have a tough decision to make regarding the direction of their lives. They have tried unsuccessfully to meet a man who they could connect with and who also wants marriage and a family. Many have been thinking about having a child on their own with a donor for a while. They ask themselves, “Should I give up on dating and just focus on having a baby on my own? “

Fifty Shades for men

Fifty Shades for men

I'm a man and I read it.  All 3 volumes.  And I liked it. OK, I'm a sex therapist. So part of the interest was professional.   But there's good stuff in this book for guys.  I've convinced several male patients of mine to read it, and all of them were glad they did. I'm thinking maybe the man in your life should read it as well.