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Perspective: One of the Secrets of Radiant Health?

Perspective: One of the Secrets of Radiant Health?

We’ve all heard that our perspective, which is our outlook, slant, or point of view is important when it comes to our happiness and success. It’s our perspective that acts as the lens to our view of the world around us as well as how we act and how we react to all that we see. All we need to do is look around and see how those with a positive perspective, who embrace life with passion and a desire to create and contribute-thrive. We also see that those with a negative perspective, who numbly get through their days often do little more than survive.

How To Help Your Kids Cope With Your Divorce [EXPERT]
It's essential to listen.

How To Help Your Kids Cope With Your Divorce

There are many times when a child after divorce is struggling — even suffering. These children need extra help. To identify a child in distress, you need to evaluate whether there have been serious changes in their behavior and personality. It is not a complete change of personality, but a more extreme version of how they were acting before the divorce. Some examples are ...

Why You Should Stop Trying To Be Superwoman [EXPERT]
It's a bird, it's a plane ...

Why You Should Stop Trying To Be Superwoman

No more saying "yes" to every request that comes your way. Let your drama queen friend cry on someone else's shoulder. Set boundaries with your kids, mate, boss and anyone else who crosses the line. Let go of the rescue role. Most importantly, trade some of your daily to-dos for some personal pampering pleasures. Here is a short list of ways you can feed your feminine essence.

6 Things To Consider Before Shacking Up [EXPERT]
Are you ready to live together?

6 Things To Consider Before Shacking Up

If you are considering moving in with your partner before marriage, there are many things to consider. On the positive side, if you move in with that person, you will really get to see who you are with and all of their habits before you marry him/her.Still, sometimes living together delays the option of marriage even longer because really, what is the rush? So, before you decide to live together, consider the following issues.

What Men Want Most In Bed [EXPERT]
Think you know what men like?

What Men Want Most In Bed

When I was in my twenties, I couldn't wait for the next issue of Cosmopolitan Magazine to hit the newsstands. It was always packed full of irresistible articles with titillating headlines like, "Secrets to Drive Him Crazy in Bed." The magazine cleverly focused on men and sex and sold millions of copies to insecure and confused women like myself. I can say with authority that in forty-plus years, nothing has changed in "Cosmo world," and this is how I know.

10 Things You Really Don’t Want In A Happy Relationship

10 Things You Really Don’t Want In A Happy Relationship

When you first meet, your partner is almost perfect. There's the breathlessness of passion and the constant surprise of new things you have in common. You totally know this is your soulmate, the person you've been looking for your whole life. As time passes you still love your soulmate, but you begin to wonder if you're "in love" with them.

Why Is My Ex Still Calling Me?

Why Is My Ex Still Calling Me?

Dear Dr. Romance: I was dating this guy for about 2 years. During the time that we were together we had some good times and bad. For one he was cheating on me with another girl then we got back together. During that time we worked hard to make the relationship work then I found out that he was sleeping with someone else. When I found this out, I finally left him alone.

Is Your Husband Pursuing 'Extracurricular' Activities?

Is Your Husband Pursuing 'Extracurricular' Activities?

Question: I think my husband has a porn problem. I have even seen stuff on our computer suggesting he is in communication with other women. You should know that he has always been very affectionate with me and that hasn’t changed. Our sex life is a little lacking, but he has a disability that makes “getting physical” a little a little bit of a challenge. I have asked about the porn and he denies it. We have been married more than twenty years and I really love him.

4 Reasons Couples Should Redefine Sex

4 Reasons Couples Should Redefine Sex

4 Reasons Why Long Term Couples Should Redefine Sex To Focus On Connection, Not Perfection  (EXPERT) I'm a couples and sex therapist, and I'll give you my definition of good sex.  It will most certainly surprise you: Good sex is regularly getting naked with another person you love, touching each other tenderly,  expecting something good to happen, and being delighted and appreciative of whatever does happen.. You don't know exactly what it will be. It's different every time.