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4 Things Women Want

4 Things Women Want

What do Women Want? 1:Women Want Connection   Connection to ourselves, connection to eachother, connection to the universe. 2:Women Want To Be Seen     The inner self, who they really are deep down.  3.Women Want To Be Heard     To know that you have been listening and heard them.

What are your first date expectations?

What are your first date expectations?

One of the relationship questions that my clients often ask is about first date expectations. Who pays? What is my date expecting? Where should I take him or her? Is it okay to do a low cost activity? One of the rules of dating is that there is no universal answer; the best way to know your date’s expectations is to be open and honest via communication and ask him or her!

Is Showering Right After Sex Normal?

Is Showering Right After Sex Normal?

Recently, a question was submitted to me asking me whether it was normal to shower after sex. The person that wrote was upset because she felt like her boyfriend couldn't wait to wash her off, which in turn made her feel like she was dirty.  This is a common topic and if you're reading this, at some point or another, you've probably been in the situation where you like a quick rinse off or you like to stay in bed saturated in your juices.

Don't Make Your Divorce Hurt Your Kids

Don't Make Your Divorce Hurt Your Kids

Let's say the most brutal part right up front: an alarming number of divorcing parents who say they're trying to "protect" their children from the effects of divorce are actually making things much worse. And the biggest reason is that the parents just can't take their egos out of the equation to make room for their children. For these parents, the drama is everything, and the kids become the suffering audience for a "poor wronged me" scenario that drags on and on.

Want A Happy Relationship?

Want A Happy Relationship?

Why are we so bad for each other? Have you ever wondered why relationships you've gotten into have ended so badly? Conversely, perhaps the opposite is true; relationships ends with no fanfare, fading away without a whimper. Wish you could evaluate a new prospect earlier in the dating cycle and cut your losses and run if it doesn't look good? Here are a few things to look for in anyone you date:

How To Improve Your Intimacy Quotient & Lure Him In

How To Improve Your Intimacy Quotient & Lure Him In

Your intimacy quotient is crucial for a man to go from "attracted to you" to "totally intoxicated by you"! This quotient is measured by how intimate your energy feels to him--whether he wants to get closer and closer to you or not, by the way you interact with him in quiet, loving and romantic moments. Your capacity for deep levels of intimacy is all related to how much physical and emotional closeness you can tolerate and even INVITE with a man.

Manspeak: 10 "Dude-isms" Translated

Manspeak: 10 "Dude-isms" Translated

By SMF Marcus Osborne for GalTime.com I think it's fair to say that, in general, men are more straightforward than women. Ask a guy if he likes your hairstyle and he'll give you a solid "Yes" or "No." There's usually not a deeper explanation for those answers. A man's statements are what they are: simple, straightforward and to the point.

Marathon Dates: When and Where Do You End Them?

Marathon Dates: When and Where Do You End Them?

Amy met Brad online. After a couple of emails, they agreed to talk on the phone. That went well, so they set up a date for drinks after work. Sparks flew instantly. After two hours and a bottle of wine between them, they moved on to a nearby restaurant hot spot. Dinner was fabulous; they couldn’t stop talking. Time flew and suddenly they realized it was late in the evening. Brad asked if he could follow Amy home to make sure she was okay. That turned into an invitation to come in for-you guessed it, another drink.

Dr. Romance Says: Lighten Up: Cures for Marital Boredom

Dr. Romance Says: Lighten Up: Cures for Marital Boredom

Dr. Romance writes: The old folk songs say it: Oh, love is handsome, love is fine Love is a jewel when it is new; But when love's old, it waxes cold And fades away, like morning dew. Folk wisdom says it: If newlyweds put a penny in a jar for every time they make love in the first year, and take one out for every time after that, the jar will never be empty.