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Over 50? Don't Age Gracefully, Live Agelessly [EXPERT]
Get out there and soak up some sun!

Over 50? Don't Age Gracefully, Live Agelessly

My message is simple: Embrace yourself for who you are. Yes, you're older, your body and mind have changed, but you have also evolved. Embrace that evolution. Use what talents you have and enjoy each day for what it is: an opportunity to experience, to do, to share, to create, to live.

TomKat Split: Why Celebrity Relationships Don't Last [EXPERT]
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TomKat Split: Why Celebrity Relationships Don't Last

Celebrity couples don't have to do their own landscaping and cleaning; they can skip over the mundane tasks of life. If things are not working out, they can split their millions and multiple homes and go off to the next hot relationship. While I am sure that celebrity couples are devastated by divorce, especially when children are involved, they certainly do have it easier when they have a staff of lawyers, movers, nannies, personal assistants — you name it — to help facilitate the transition.

A Room of One's Own

A Room of One's Own

“Lock up your libraries if you like, but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind.” —Virginia Woolf, A Room of One's Own Altogether there were three: two boys and a girl, obviously bright, interested in life, wanting to make something of themselves, hoping to give back in a significant way. More than a week earlier they had asked to meet with me.

Beat The Heat! 8 Ways To Keep Cool This Summer [EXPERT]
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Beat The Heat! 8 Ways To Keep Cool This Summer

The following tips have been gleaned from government websites for staying cool and beating the heat, but first, a rule that ought to be a law: Never, ever leave children or pets in a parked car; don't even think about it! Now, here are the tips ...

Why Katie Holmes Secretly Filed For Divorce [EXPERT]
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Why Katie Holmes Secretly Filed For Divorce

News Flash: Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise are divorcing. Many stories have indicated that Katie filed the divorce papers secretly, and Tom was blindsided with the news. Many people are asking why. While I don't know Katie and her reasons for using this tactic, I have talked to many women over the years and have witnessed multiple reasons to be secretive and careful when considering divorce.

7 Tips To Combat The State Of Limbo

7 Tips To Combat The State Of Limbo

Limboland- we've all heard the phrase "I'm in limbo". But what exactly does it mean? Limbo is frequently used to describe a temporary state- a lack of movement either forwards or backwards. In life, and in relationships, one thing is certain- being in limbo is darn uncomfortable.

What Is Really Behind A Sexless Marriage?

What Is Really Behind A Sexless Marriage?

The remaining couples that do hang on more than half of them live in sexless marriages. What is a sexless marriage? It can be defined as a marriage where the couple has little to no sex every month, or several months. This is not due to an illness or sudden event but a natural rhythm that happens over time in a marriage. There are a few main causes for sexless marriages and it can happen gradually overtime.

8 Ways To Let Your Irrestible Light Shine Through

8 Ways To Let Your Irrestible Light Shine Through

One New Years Eve my cousin and I went to our favorite spot, Tiffany’s, a rather “happening” club in 1980's Washington, DC where we’d always met our share of interesting men and had numerous nights of fun. Our hair was styled perfectly and in an attempt to snag our future husbands (Oh, God, please!), we had blown our paychecks on designer fashions. We were, in essence, two fine, irresistible women.

How Do Sexual Patterns Reveal Themselves?

How Do Sexual Patterns Reveal Themselves?

People often go into marriage thinking that their past sexual pattern or way of having sex somehow vanishes. That is because the sex is new and fun in the relationship and that the past sexual pattern will not matter, but it does. As we get older and have more sexual partners, ways of masturbating, we get into a sexual pattern that we may not even realize and this pattern will eventually come out in the marriage. The best case scenario is that the sexual pattern can be shared with your spouse working it into the love making.