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What Are You Role-Modeling For Your Children?

What Are You Role-Modeling For Your Children?

"The attitude you have as a parent is what your kids will learn from more than what you tell them. They don't remember what you try to teach them. They remember what you are." ~Jim Henson, 1936-1990, Creator of The Muppets Half of good parenting is being there for your children and the other half is being there for yourself. What would you have given as you were growing up to have had parents who role-modeled taking loving care of their feelings, their health, their finances, their environment?

Celebration Time!

Celebration Time!

In a couple of days it will be my birthday. I have noticed over the years that most people seem to be in one of three camps when it comes to celebrating this day. One birthday camp is all about it! Lets celebrate in any and all ways possible. Another camp is pretty nonchalant. They go about their day as usual with a few special touches to mark the occasion. Yet another camp wants nothing to do with noting the day for themselves. As anyone who knows me well, or even casually, will tell you, I fall very firmly in birthday camp number one!

Memory Lane

Memory Lane

A Trip Down Memory Lane Memorial Day is traditionally a day to honor those who gave their lives in service of our country. This is not something I was bound to forget living in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, as I did for most of my adult life. In Gettysburg we pulled out all the stops to make this holiday a special occasion.

Dating Safety in the 21st Century

Dating Safety in the 21st Century

Let’s face it, the taboo surrounding online dating has changed a lot in the last few years. It’s no longer considered weird to meet singles or find ‘the one’ online. In fact most people searching for love now use some form of online tool to aid that search. Isn’t technology great?

Top 10 Misconceptions About Gay People [EXPERT]
June is Gay Pride Month!

Top 10 Misconceptions About Gay People

It's Gay & Lesbian Pride Month, so what better excuse could there be to examine some of the myths that continue to negatively label same-sex unions? The next time you hear somebody claim truth to any of these prevalent falsehoods, be sure to speak up and educate others on the real deal!

Bloom with Every Season

Bloom with Every Season

I have always had a penchant for adventure. There was a time in the 70’s and 80’s where you could have found me along with my two adopted Indian daughters traveling across countries in Europe and outposts of Asia where many white women would have feared to tread. But we went, we adventured, and we survived. It’s safe to say that I have sailed, hiked, trained, planed, and automobiled my way across most of this great planet, yet the thought of moving from the busy city of Washington, DC to the casual beaches of Florida nearly paralyzed me.

Summer Love: 5 Signs Your Fling Is The Real Thing [EXPERT]
The summer sun isn't nearly as hot as you are.

Summer Love: 5 Signs Your Fling Is The Real Thing

Bring on summertime! It's time for cookouts, beach trips, swimming, volleyball, parties on the patio and much much more. For some singles, it's also time for a summer fling. With the heat of summer can easily come the heat of romance. Look for these five crucial signs to tell if this fling is most likely something more.

When Love Isn't Enough: 3 Rules for a Drama Free Divorce

When Love Isn't Enough: 3 Rules for a Drama Free Divorce

Drama. Deceit. Devastation. It's not just reality TV, it's the reality that most of us experience when we end a relationship, because we don't and won't leave our mate until we reach the point of hating, hurting and hardly speaking. Like a pit bull gripping its most beloved doggie toy, we believe that if we feel any love at all for this person, we must stay, fight and make the relationship work. And only when we think that love is gone, do we concede and dive head first into the despair of an ugly, hurtful, messy divorce.

Are You Stuck in a Job Search Rut?

Are You Stuck in a Job Search Rut?

You wake up tired. Go to bed tired, and feel frustrated all the time.  You need a new job, but are you really going about the job search in the right way? What are you doing that is making the most of your free time that doesn’t stress you out? Here are some ideas to help get you off the couch and *mostly* effortlessly back into the game. 1. Network (cocktails approved!)