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Why you Aren't Asking for (and Getting) What You Want

Why you Aren't Asking for (and Getting) What You Want

I talk to clients every day who want something from someone else, but they aren’t asking for it. They are living in a limbo of sorts…wanting, craving, hoping, but not doing anything about it. They might want their partner to stop bringing the Kindle to bed every night. Or they want their boss to let them work from home a couple days a week. Or they want their dad to call before stopping by. But they haven’t asked for it.

The Simple Life of Dating

The Simple Life of Dating

The definition of a date is assumed to be an extravagant dinner or trips to the Opera that often involve dressing up from head to toe. However, there are certain dates that can be enjoyed outside of stilettoes and in your comfiest pair of jeans. 1. Take a day trip to the beach: If you’re the kind of person that likes being out in the sun with the sand between their toes, then go for it. If you’re feeling lazy, you two can lay out under an umbrella, have a few cocktails, and get to know each other better.

Don’t Be That Girl When Dating

Don’t Be That Girl When Dating

1. The Disbeliever: there’s this inevitable thing that happens when you date a guy that cheats on you. You begin to believe that every other man will cheat on you too. However, if you’ve just started dating this guy, give him the benefit of the doubt. If he has to go out for drinks with his co-workers, maybe he’s doing just that. Calm down, think rationally, and go do something other than refreshing your browser so you can track his check-ins.

The First Date: What to Order

The First Date: What to Order

Read this article to find out how and what you should order on the first date. Continuing the trend, women tend to over analyze every little thing they do especially on the first date. In particular, when it comes to ordering, women usually go insane and ask themselves one hundred different questions.

5 Places to Find a Man That You Don’t Really Think About

5 Places to Find a Man That You Don’t Really Think About

1. The gym: with all the sweating and grunting that goes on at they gym, it might not seem like the ideal place to meet a guy. However, have you ever taken the time to look around to see how many there are in there? There’s nothing more stress relieving than a run after a long day at work. So next time, instead of hitting the closest happy hour after you clock out, why not hit the gym instead?

Are You Getting Shawshanked at Work?

Are You Getting Shawshanked at Work?

“It’s time to start living, or it’s time to start dying.” -The Shawshank Redemption We’ve all been there – that comfortable place where you are in control at your office. You know your place in the company, people trust you, and you have gotten really really REALLY comfortable in your work.  Your box of  killer heels is under the desk. Your mug is clearly labeled, and people know to stay away from your left-over chinese food in the fridge if they want to keep their fingers.

5 Easy Ways to Ruin a First Date

5 Easy Ways to Ruin a First Date

1. Calorie counting: when a guy asks you out on a date, he’s going to want to take you somewhere nice. If you order the Caesar salad without bacon bits or croutons with the dressing on the side, he’s not going to be overly impressed. So leave your weight watchers mentality at home for the night and indulge. You can always have a light lunch before or work it all off at the gym the day after.

What Is Sex Addiction And Can It Be Cured?

What Is Sex Addiction And Can It Be Cured?

Sexual Desire – the Biology and the Ecstasy Sexual desire, as we all know, is a natural biological urge, which may or may not lead to masturbation or sexual intercourse, and this in turn, may or may not lead to genital release, also known as Orgasm. The orgasm reflex is an automatic aspect of the nervous system. It is pre-programmed into the human body to need genital release on a regular basis, the frequency of which depends on the age and health of the person.

Conversation Topics For Dating

Conversation Topics For Dating

Read this blog to find out some safe and upbeat conversation topics for dating. Are you nervous of awkward lulls in conversations or having nothing to talk about? If so, I’ve created a list of topics that you can talk about with some Dos and Don'ts when dating. Topics: 1. Movies • Dos: The Godfather and/or any other Oscar nominated movie • Donts: Avoid any debates about controversial documentaries 2. Travel

Top 5 Dating Tips For Women Over 40

Top 5 Dating Tips For Women Over 40

Dating at any age may feel complicated or overwhelming. However, it does not have to be. In most cases, women over 40 have had enough dating experience to know what they do and do not want in a relationship. Women over 40 are more likely to be established, have homes, established friends, and secure jobs. You are more likely to know what you are looking for.