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Gnarly Mistakes

Gnarly Mistakes

There’s no avoiding them. Don’t cover them up. Don’t pretend they don’t exist. Really, really don’t blame someone else. Own it. It’s probably you’re fault, anyway. Look, you’re going to ‘eff up. You have before. And you will again. You’ll wish you did. You’ll wish you didn’t. You’ll wish you said this or didn’t say that.

I Suck (A Word On Shortcomings)

I Suck (A Word On Shortcomings)

I suck at: spelling reading directions anything math-related (I still count on my fingers) having patience for objects with an “ON/OFF” switch doing one thing at a time being told what to do being on time (I’m always 5-7 minutes late. (Sorry) being interested in politics reporting to a cubicle (The neon lights, industrial carpet and institutional nature of it chokes my soul and depresses my creative juju.)

4 Reasons Why You Should Breakup With Him [EXPERT]
Are you ready to finally let go?

4 Reasons Why You Should Breakup With Him

We've all been there; you and your boyfriend have been together for what seems like forever. You've even mentally designed the ideal wedding, kitchen island counter-top and the kids' school graduation. But lately, the relationship is hitting the skids and getting through an average day feels like wading through knee-deep Mississippi mud. You thought you'd found "the one," but recently you've been left second guessing. How can you tell when your relationship has gone on too long? I've outlined four ways to knowing when it's time to hit the road.

 5 Common Myths About Sex [EXPERT]
Don't believe everything you hear.

5 Common Myths About Sex

Sex is something that is so natural and fun, but at times, can be confusing and complicated. Here are five myths about sex that you probably wonder about.

 5 Ways To Think More Clearly

5 Ways To Think More Clearly

Your friend texts you about their frustrating day, your taxes have to be filed, the radio spouts news of another disaster somewhere, and you still haven’t taken your car in for its oil change. With the wonders of technology and high-speed interaction between us all, we’re finding it more and more difficult to keep our mental machinery chugging away at optimum performance. What you need is scheduled maintenance.

Change him through this love shift

Change him through this love shift

When my husband of two years said to me “I don’t know if I can do this anymore,” I reacted like most- I groveled. I said I would change. Things would be different. I wouldn’t nag him so much, require so much, ask as much. I would keep it together all the time. I would do the things he wanted.

5 Fun Moves To Spice Up Your Sex Life [EXPERT]
Instead of coffee, let sex wake you up in the morning.

5 Fun Moves To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex. The word itself used to make people uncomfortable. But now, more than ever, women are branching out in their sexual behaviors, and discovering what gets them going. From incorporating sex toys in the bedroom to paging through 50 Shades of Grey, women are mixing it up and increasing their pleasure in the process.

21 Reasons Kids and Parents Tell Lies (EXPERT)

21 Reasons Kids and Parents Tell Lies (EXPERT)

Do parents lie to their kids? Do kids tell lies? Why do we lie, often when the truth would serve us better? We recently had a group of friends and relatives in our home for a dinner party. After some great food and general conversation, I asked them to help me with this project. Everyone was supportive and eager to assist in writing a book. But when I asked them to tell me why they lied, there was a shocked silence.

5 Conversations You Should Not Have On The First Date

5 Conversations You Should Not Have On The First Date

So have you ever been on date with a guy and all of a sudden he says something that makes you say “That’s Crazy!” I mean seriously… the conversation can be going so well and unfortunately, it goes south because one of you says something that the other finds unattractive.

Have You Personally Aligned Your Energy?

Have You Personally Aligned Your Energy?

When you bring up things you’re concerned about and work it out in your personal aligning formula, you’ll see that it’s OK to feel that way. You’ll then be able to more easily shift your vibration to more of what you want to feel and become more of a match with people and situations that you would not have had access too had you not done the aligning part.