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4 Irresistible Qualities Men & Women Love [EXPERT]
Do you feel irresistible?

4 Irresistible Qualities Men & Women Love

We asked YourTango readers to tell us which of their body parts they like the best. Resoundingly, the answer we saw most was "eyes." Of course, we all know that attraction isn't all about body parts. It's also about those inexplicable qualities that create chemistry. So, we asked dating coach and YourTango Expert Janet Ong Zimmerman to weigh in on how any person can become more attractive, and here's what she had to say.

Female Arousal: How To Not Get Preoccupied During Sex

Female Arousal: How To Not Get Preoccupied During Sex

Life has become impossibly busy for most of us. For many women, life is full of distractions and worries, which can create sexual frustrations, which in turn can create sexual avoidance or kill desire. Does this sound like you? If so, I have a technique for you, taken from my book SexTalk (2002). It's called Taking the Great Dane for a Walk.

Can Tantra Improve Your Sex Life?

Can Tantra Improve Your Sex Life?

Sex is one reason couples come to Tantra - either to help put the spark back into their relationship or in the hope of curing some kind of sexual dysfunction. Below are some key principles which can help couples to find sexual fulfillment. Make time for love: Busy couples often make love at the end of a tiring day. Make special time for your love-making. Have a bath, exchange a massage, take a walk or meal together beforehand so you can let go of the day and spend time simply being together before making love.

How To Be Irresistible In Bed

How To Be Irresistible In Bed

If you want to be a passionate and sexy lover, be passionate and sexy in life! Live your life with wild abandon, go for what makes you happy and bring this quality to the bedroom. Learn to pleasure yourself and know what you want. Knowing your own body, knowing the time you need, the style you like, and what ecstasy you are capable of, will make you an empress of love.

Why Finding Your Soulmate Is So Important

Why Finding Your Soulmate Is So Important

Today, I’m writing this from a place of feeling defensive. Yep, I feel a little defensive and protective about the conscious and intentional journey to your soulmate. Why? Because in this society, many people don’t even believe in soulmates. I’ve gotten a lot of flak over the years from people who tell me it’s not even possible to find your soulmate.

Why Your Teen Shouldn't Worry About Body Image [EXPERT]
Stop, and put down that tape measure!

Why Your Teen Shouldn't Worry About Body Image

many mothers are concerned that their daughters remain thin so that they can have options in life-options to go on dates, options to decide whether or not to accept a prom invitation, and maybe even the option to hang out with the better looking boys. I do know that many mothers are concerned about their daughters' health and developing good eating and exercise habits. I continue to remain perplexed about why so many women associate thinness with attractiveness. I am concerned that we have made the erroneous assumption that males will find our daughters more attractive if they are skinny. This is at odds with what the boys tell me; many of them say that they like women who are curvy.

4 Dirty Little Secrets Your Man Is Hiding From You

4 Dirty Little Secrets Your Man Is Hiding From You

Although, as I have stated in the past, men are fairly simple creatures, there is still a side of us we try to keep to ourselves. And while it may seem we are hiding something in an effort to increase our mystique, we are, in fact, simply concealing a number of dirty little secrets that we don’t particularly want you to know.

Online Dating Is Just Like Online Shopping [EXPERT]
Which man do you want to try on?

Online Dating Is Just Like Online Shopping

Watch out Match.com! CheckHimOut.com is connecting with every single woman's inner shopping Goddess. This online dating site is different than all the rest, and I've tried plenty of them out. I signed up for this site and picked out my user-name, password and email then eagerly verified my account when I received my validate now email from this interesting site.

How To Awaken Your Passion For Life

How To Awaken Your Passion For Life

Anger is such a difficult emotion for so many of us to express. Women, especially, are taught that anger is ugly and we are bitchy if we complain or vent about feeling upset. Afraid of our anger and what it might appear like, we tend to hold it in and repress it. Simmering inside of us, it either turns into depression and we take it out on ourselves through addiction or eating poorly, etc, or it erupts like a volcano and comes out sideways and squirrely, not how we intended.