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Are You In An Imaginary Relationship? Don't Get Used

Are You In An Imaginary Relationship? Don't Get Used

I’ve been in two imaginary relationships.  Both times I was head-over-heels in love, and both times I ended up dumped for another woman. See, in both relationships, things started out casual.  There were no strings attached and we were just having fun.  At first, I was happy about the arrangement, because I didn’t feel smothered or pressured into making big decisions about commitment or accountability.

6 Lessons Yoga Taught Me About Divorce

6 Lessons Yoga Taught Me About Divorce

About 10 years ago a friend invited me to a yoga class.  Just divorced, I was feeling open to new things. Yoga was really not something I'd considered before, but I didn't evaluate it, overthink it or analyze it to death. I just went. It was my first lesson. Here's what I learned about divorce from yoga.

Who's Wrong?

Who's Wrong?

Have you ever encountered those people who will never admit that they did or are doing something wrong? They always have an excuse as to why it's ok or how it is someone else's fault?  Always on the defensive. Don't waste your breath on telling them why they are wrong, majority will never admit to it. Their ego gets in the way of that. But the real question is, why do you NEED them to admit to their fault(s)?

Holidays with your In-laws: Your wife thinks your mom is a witch

Holidays with your In-laws: Your wife thinks your mom is a witch

It’s early November and Miranda feels her tension levels rising with each passing day.  The Holidays are approaching, and she dreads this time of year because she knows she’ll eventually have to see her Mother-in-law.  Miranda doesn’t exactly know why her relationship with her Mother-in-law is strained, but whenever she sees them, she seems to make it abundantly clear that Miranda is not part of their family.  For example, even though she’s been married to her husband Sean for eleven years, whenever there’s a family photo taken, her Mother-in-

Taking the Long Road

Taking the Long Road

Challenges. We all have them. Whether they are work, personal, spiritual, emotional, or physically related. There is not one person alive that can say that they have not faced something in their life that they were not sure that they would defeat. But they do- sometimes not how you imagined it, but you fight your way through it. You learn about your grit. Your worth. Your character. YOU.

Hey Gay Girl, You've Got To Love Your Lesbian Self

Hey Gay Girl, You've Got To Love Your Lesbian Self

If you haven't heard this yet, hear it now. You've got to learn to love yourself! Are you still single? Yeah, still single? Damn. Right. Yeah. I know you are missing love and wanting love and hoping for love. But let me interrupt... first you have got to love yourself. It’s time to make a shift gay girl. You’ve got to love yourself and stop waiting for love to show up in someone else. You are already full of it; love that is but you’re not using it.