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What Mask Are You Wearing In Your Relationships and Life?

What Mask Are You Wearing In Your Relationships and Life?

Do you really believe you can create authentic, intimate relationships if you are wearing a mask. A mask of being what you think the prevailing society expects of you. In general men and women create their masks by the things they are told and see, explicitly and implicitly, especially when we are kids. Boys are told not to cry, to be a man, to be active, to be producers and consumer of goods.

How Do I Know If A Relationship Is Right For Me?

How Do I Know If A Relationship Is Right For Me?

Have you ever looked back at the end of a relationship and said, "I knew it wasn’t going to work out in the first 3 months”. What weren’t you listening to in the first 3 months, that you “knew” but you chose to override? Perhaps you pretended you were not feeling something and sensing a message that you did not want to hear and feel. Let’s start with the question... How do I know if a relationship is right for me?

Rediscover Your Love of the Rain

Rediscover Your Love of the Rain

You’ve heard these expressions: “When life gives you lemons make lemonade.” “Make hay while the sun shines.” So what do you do when it rains? I am on a personal retreat (Sept 24 – Oct 1) in Kuala Lumpur.

Is Gawking At Women Objectification?

Is Gawking At Women Objectification?

Alan used to look at porn but, through counseling, had been able to stop. However, he persisted in his behavior of objectifying women. Although Trish had spoken with Alan many times about how his behavior seemed demeaning from her point of view, he just couldn’t or wouldn’t change.

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Couples fighting with different communication styles

In A Fight? Read This Before You Talk It Out

Conflicts and disagreements are a normal part of relating with others. Real problems arise when those arguing have very different communication styles Life Coach Kelly Rudolph explains the best way you can resolve conflicts more easily with her effective communication tips.