Falling in love can be easy, but choosing the best candidate is not always the same. Sometimes you find yourself going back and forth in your head, "Is this the person I'm destined to be with? What if it's not?" If this sounds like you even just a little, you should definitely read Life Coach Bonnie Olson's article for support.
Are you anxious and excited about success! You have the best ideas and your determination is on level 10, but something is missing? Maybe you could use a mentor or life coach for the extra push.
Arguments are prone to happen in even those perfect relationships we can't help but smile at. However, when an argument is cooking between you and lover, don't let it make it to the table. There's something to be done! Learn how to avoid losing your cool with your lover.
Is love really all that matters? Does it conquer all...even family values and traditions? We'd all like to think so, but sometimes love just isn't that simple.
Once upon a time, In high school, I memorized a poem that has been a constant source of help and direction in my life and relationships. It’s simple and much more sentimental than today’s cynical age can handle, but the very simplicity of it made it a great navigational tool for me in relationships. “He drew a circle that shut me out; Heretic, Rebel, a thing to flout. But Love and I had the Wit to Win. We drew a circle that took him in” – Edwin Markham
You no longer eat dinner together. Outings with other couples are now more stressful than ever trying to keep up with the facade of being a happy couple. Your significant other doesn't call anymore to see how you're doing during the day nor wonder where you are at night. Your family knows something's wrong during the holidays whenever you show up at family events and functions alone. You're really tired of lying to people and more importantly, to yourself. You know you need to end it but just don't have the strength to do it.
How many of us had relationships where this question has never been raised at least hypothetically? We either ask it to ourselves or worry that it may be a concern of our partner. In either case thinking about separation brings discomfort, anxiety, uncertainty, guilt, fears, frustration, etc.
Relationship Coach, Michael Griswold, discusses the possibility that cheating isn't always about sex, and offers alternative explanations people cheat.
An attempt to resolve an issue with a partner once someone is triggered into a fight-flight-freeze reaction is like trying to put out a fire by throwing gasoline on it. You'll do more damage than good because the part of your brain designed for battle and survival has taken over.