A friend of mine called me the other day, and she asked. “David, I went out with this guy the other night. He was cool. He was interesting. But when we hugged, I just didn't feel the heat that I needed. But then again, I only knew him for two hours and I'm not sure. He was really cool.” I looked at her and said, “You need to think like an actor, or more like a casting director.”
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Most people want to find love, but not everyone is at the point in their lives where they're ready to fully open their hearts. If these five signs sound familiar, you're well on your way to loving and being loved.
Why Do Cougars Fascinate Us? Let’s Re-define the word: COUGAR! Who was your favorite character on Sex and the City? Admit it, Carrie was sweet, but Samantha was fascinating. Samantha was hot! She dressed sexy, dated younger men, and wasn’t afraid to shock the others with tales of her sexual exploits. Samantha took pride in her body and mind. She was financially independent, loved her job, passionate about her friends and had a great sense of humor. Samantha was a Cougar!
Misery loves company and according to Sonja Lyubomirsky, a researcher at the University of California, 40% of your capacity for happiness or contentment is dependent upon your ability to change. You don’t have to look far to meet truly miserable people, and question why they continue to live a life of misery. Since most of us bounce back and forth between happiness and blue, it seems to be what determines miserable people from optimistic ones are the time they devote to being miserable.
GIVING THANKS You have to honor your existing blessings to receive more blessings. The adage, “Ingratitude is worse than witchcraft” is instructive. Gratitude is the expression or affirmation by the receiver to the giver. The United States of America celebrates ever year its holiday of Thanksgiving. What really does “Thanksgiving” mean to you? Put simply, it is a sense of gratitude to reflect on the goodness in your life, and honor that bounty.
Have you fallen off track keeping your New Year's goals and resolutions? No worries, the year is still young. Here are 11 questions to get your goals re-activated with confidence.
Everyone is relieved when the holidays are over, and sometimes disappointed. If you're worn out, it's worth your while to take the time to recharge a little, and pamper yourself. Dr. Romance gives 4 Tips for handling Post-holiday blues
What can we learn from 'The Bachelor'? For starters, the dating world will never be the same after the introduction of Chris Soules. Not only is the new Bachelor super sexy, he's also the unconventional man. Maybe this dramatic shift in the expectations we hold for men will change with you, too.
Dating is a great way to meet new people, but is it possible to date TOO much? Women shouldn't date men just for companionship or the fear of loneliness. Instead of dating for the sake of dating, spend time you genuinely enjoy spending time with. You'll be happier in the end.