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Trouble Below The Belt: 7 Reasons His Erection Disappeared

Sure, you know when your sex drive stalls, but we often assume that men are pretty much always down for sex — and that's definitely not the case. So if your guy is having a little trouble below the belt, there are several things that may be to blame. Here are a few common factors that can result in penis problems, plus tips on how to get him going again.

Kegel Exercises For Men? A New Study Reveals All!
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Kegel Exercises For Men? A New Study Reveals All!

Kegels aren’t just for ladies anymore! For any guy who wants to last longer in bed and experience more powerful orgasms, there is one thing to do: Kegel exercises! Kegel exercises, also known as pelvic floor exercises, are designed to strengthen and tone the muscles of the pelvic floor. Like all muscles in your body, the muscles of the pelvis can be strengthened and toned through focused exercises.

Erecticle Dysfunction (ED) Causes
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Erecticle Dysfunction (ED) Causes

How long you have been suffering these ailments? Has this happened overnight or chronically, over time? Can you recall an occasion you first encountered this problem? Does your erectile problem bother you all the time or you face a problem at times? Do you encounter this disorder with all your sex partners (in case there are more than one partner) or just a particular one? When you are able to have an erection, are you able to insert the penis into the vagina?

7 Things You Need To Know About Sex [EXPERT]
Think you know it all? Think again.
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7 Things You Need To Know About Sex

Everybody thinks they know everything they need to know about sex. However, if it was so simple, there wouldn't be so many people in need of sex therapy, marriage and relationship counseling, and there certainly wouldn't be so many relationships ending in divorce. Here are seven truths you need to know about sex.

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Why Can't He Perform? Understanding Erectile Dysfunction

Picture this: You're in the middle of a fierce makeout session and reach down to grab what you expect will be a hard, throbbing erection. Instead, your hand is met with a disappointingly soft penis. Or maybe he's got an erection now, but loses it before you can actually get busy. Sure, what goes up must—eventually—come down, but so soon? Your first thought is probably, "Why can't he get it up? Isn't he attracted to me?"

How To NOT Get An Erection
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How To NOT Get An Erection

Sex Therapy can be complicated. Fortunately, sometimes it isn’t. About three months ago my patient Sam finally started dating again after his wife left him last summer. After a few nondescript experiences, he met Yolanda, they hit it off, and a few weeks later he found himself in bed with her. Two days later he came in for his weekly session. Five minutes before it ended, he mentioned how he couldn’t “y’know” when he wanted to “y’know.”

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Will New "Viagra Condoms" Make Safe Sex More Appealing?

For years, manufacturers have gamely attempted to make condoms more fun to use, but alas, even the most delectably flavored varieties don't compensate for that sterile, rubbery sensation. Now, a British biotech firm has taken on the challenge by developing the CSD500, a condom that prolongs a man's erection — hence its unofficial nickname, the "Viagra condom."

Keeping an Erection During Oral Sex
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Keeping an Erection During Oral Sex

Question: The last time I was getting oral sex I lost my erection and now it happens often. Why does this happen and what can I do to stop it? This can be a very common experience. As rapidly as blood engorges your penis to make it erect, the blood can just as quickly drain away leaving you limp. In fact, many men also lose their erections during sexual intercourse.

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Judy Blume: Crucial Sex Education For Young Girls

As a young girl—ovaries yet to ripen and hymen still in intact—reading Judy Blume books were like porn for me … educational porn. These were the pre-internet days, before I could Google "funny feeling down there" or "penis, hard-on." All I had was my imagination and my canon of Judy Blume books to aid my highly curious pre-teen mind. They were a permanent Sharpie mark on my burgeoning deviant mind.

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Male Take: When He Can't Get An Erection

When a man can't get it up, the experience for him and his partner falls somewhere between awkward and utterly mortifying—I've even heard of men not calling women back because they were so ashamed of their inability to keep it up. So what can a woman say or do when her man can't get an erection? Here are five things you can say to help make the best of the situation. Because men are so sensitive about it, and because it's about as embarrassing a moment as he can experience, it puts the woman in a really tough spot. Of course you just want to say, "Honey, is there something I can do to help?" But in some cases, that's exactly what he doesn't want to hear. He's thinking, "No, I'm just dying from the pressure here, and the last thing I want you to do is even notice, much less try to help!" Even worse is if you say, "Is there something wrong?" or "Are you okay?"—because, yes, there obviously is something wrong (you don't have to remind me!) and, no, I'm clearly not OK, I'm flaccid! So what can a woman say or do when her man can't rev up the engines? Here are a few possibilities, but know that any one of these can backfire too, depending on the circumstances. But, in order of most likely to go over well, here are five ways you can say to help make the best of the situation.

Sexlets Gum Helps Men Perform
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Sexlets Gum Helps Men Perform

If you've got a slight (secret) libido problem and too much pride to ask for Viagra, fear not. The scientific powers that be have dreamt up a product that's perfect for your garden variety, below-the-belt limpy—erection-enhancing chewing gum! Sexlets officially hits the market in a few weeks.

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The Best Of The Web: Getting Freaky And Nicknames

A good cry from The Wonder Years. Letting your freak flag fly. Interesting vaginas. Did Britney Spears break up? 8 steps to wreck a relationship. Bikram Yoga can produce better erections. Some pick-up lines for 2010. Renaming lady blue balls. Nicknaming your dudes. Dumping dudes because they're not perfect, a reflections. Thoughts on Big Love.