4 Tips To Make Co-Parenting With Your Ex Easier
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4 Tips To Make Co-Parenting With Your Ex Easier

The word “co-parenting” can be a detriment. It is a mushy and loving word, but many people in these situations are not feeling mushy and loving. As a divorced co-parenting teacher and therapist,  I often hear comments like: “It is absurd to think that we are ‘co-parenting’-- my ex is a bully and has no interest in compromising and communicating. How do you co-parent with someone who has no interest in co-parenting?” 

6 Signs That Your Marriage Is On The Rocks
Could it be time for you to call it quits for your marriage?
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6 Signs That Your Marriage Is On The Rocks

Marriages will either end in death or divorce. Even picture-perfect marriages have the potential to end in the latter. It can take the smallest thing to spark the idea of divorce; those seemingly innocuous mistakes made at the worst possible moment can undermine a lifetime of love and affection.

Dating After Divorce? 3 Pitfalls To Avoid [EXPERT]
Got baggage? No problem!
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Dating After Divorce? 3 Pitfalls To Avoid

Whether you've already started dating after divorce, or you're about to take the plunge, chances are good you're going to be tempted to give in to three behaviors that will sabotage either your ability to move on from your marriage, or seriously reduce the chance you'll find a wonderful new man. Here are three post-divorce dating dangers and how you can avoid them.

9 Love Lessons I Learned From My Divorce [EXPERT]
Are you ready to move on?
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9 Love Lessons I Learned From My Divorce

Going through a divorce is one of the most painful things for anyone to experience. I can relate from my own personal divorce drama. The day my ex threatened to call the cops because my parents took my son to church, made me wonder, how could it ever get this bad? There were days I felt like I should make a guest appearance on the Jerry Springer show. Getting divorced and going through separation, with children, a once shared home, and pets, is painful and confusing. But it can also be a great teacher.

The 10 Emotional Stages Of Divorce
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The 10 Emotional Stages Of Divorce

Just as in death and dying, there are emotional stages people go through during a divorce. Mostly these stages pertain to the person who didn't initiate the divorce, although some of them are applicable even if you did initiated it. Depending upon each individual, a person can skip stages, get stuck in some, or move on only to revisit previous stages. These stages do not represent a neat and clean progression through divorce but it will give you an idea where you are and where you want to get to so you can be happy again.

5 Things You Must Know Before Getting Divorced [EXPERT]
Even though your marriage is over, don't let your divorce turn nasty.
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5 Things You Must Know Before Getting Divorced

You've done everything you can to make the marriage work. You've been to more than one marriage counselor, you've read every book on how to make a marriage great, and you've struggled with the consequences for both you and your children on calling it quits. You've come to the painful conclusion that no matter how much you want your marriage to work, it simply does not. You submit to the reality of divorce and you're ready to take that final step out of your marriage and into the unknown territory of navigating a divorce.

Why Katie Holmes Filed For Divorce From Tom Cruise [EXPERT]
Holmes and Cruise were married for almost six years.
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Why Katie Holmes Filed For Divorce From Tom Cruise

Since the announcement last week, many people are speculating about what made Katie Holmes file for divorce from Tom Cruise. She appeared to have everything a girl could dream of: an amazing career, a devilishly handsome husband, a beautiful daughter and more money than a person could spend in a lifetime. What was Katie's deciding factor? Here are two possible answers.

Divorce Woes
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Divorce Woes

My Mom is going through her second divorce and I know most would say how sad, but I couldn't be happier for her and the decision she has made. Her soon to be ex was the most conniving, arrogant and dysfunctional man I have ever met in my life. With that being said unfortunately for her she has gone through a lot with him, because of how dysfunctional he is. 

January
January is a busy month for lawyers.
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Is January The Right Time For A Divorce?

This is a blog post by a member of the YourTango community and does not represent the opinions of YourTango.com or its employees. January is the busiest month of the year for divorce proceedings to be started. Why the New Year?

Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 2
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Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 2

In Part 1 of this series, we addressed the question of “Why?” "Why did my “heterosexual” partner marry me when he/she knew they were gay/lesbian?" This question has been asked numerous times throughout history as many a man and woman have come out to their beloveds. The answers to this question are as varied and unique as the individuals who taken this road less traveled.

Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 1
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Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 1

There are more individuals “coming out of the closet” to live their sexual truths than ever before in history (well at least it appears that way!). Why? The most obvious reason is that homosexuality is becoming more accepted.

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Extend a helping hand. Your friend will never forget your love and support!
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How To Help A Friend Cope With Divorce

For many people, separating from a life-partner is the single most tragic and painful event of their lives. Recovering from such a blow is rarely an easy or pleasant process. Watching a close friend go through the divorce process presents its own set of problems. You want to help, but it can be extremely difficult to approach your friend—an individual with whom you are accustomed to sharing considerably happier times—in this period of profound anger, sorrow, and/or uncertainty.

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Dating After Divorce: How Soon Is Too Soon?

So, your divorce is final, and the realization of your new-found freedom came rushing up on you like a locomotive. That alone is a lot to adjust to. But once you've settled into your new status as a single woman, the next question isn't easy, either. How soon is too soon to start dating again?

Is Connecting Better than Communicating?
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Is Connecting Better than Communicating?

In intimate relationships the key to making it last is constant CONNECTION, not necessarily communication. Based on brain chemistry, and what we understand from functional MRIs... --Did you know that for women connecting means that she needs to feel heard, appreciated, and safe? --Did you know that for men connecting means that he feels like he is the provider and protector? If you can figure out how your partner feels connected, then it will help you to stay intimate. When I talk about connection, I am refering to that feeling of being loved.