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How Thanksgiving Can Help You Overcome Heartache [EXPERT]
Are you heartbroken?
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How Thanksgiving Can Help You Overcome Heartache

If you have suffered a tragedy this year—a loss of employment, loss of your home, a divorce or even a death—you may not feel as if there is much to celebrate or to give thanks for this holiday season. However, I respectfully disagree! This is exactly the time to give thanks.

Divorce: A Path Of Conscious Evolution
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Divorce: A Path Of Conscious Evolution

I remember the mental numbness the first time I heard the words. A wave of uncomfortable warmth swept through my body. Who I was, the world I knew, the future I saw was shattered like a picture window hit by a large rock. The words were: “I want a divorce”. That was 2006. Since that time, I’ve pursued a path of spirituality. Not because of the divorce, rather because of one of my person values – evolution. As I look back and reflect upon my divorce, I now know that my divorce was a blessing.

A Holiday Survival Guide For The Newly Un-Coupled
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A Holiday Survival Guide For The Newly Un-Coupled

  Breaking up, separating or divorcing is devastating at any time of the year but can feels especially horrible when it happens during the holiday season. This time of year is filled with images of happy families and joyful, loving couples exchanging meaningful gifts and sharing loving moments. The juxtaposition of these images and your reality is jarring.  There is also the expectation for you to attend all the holiday events and join in the celebrations.  All of this can leave you feeling overwhelmed and exhausted.

Why Your Divorce Is Like A Ginsu Knife
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Why Your Divorce Is Like A Ginsu Knife

ISN’T THAT AMAZING? Getting a divorce is very similar to buying a set of Ginsu Knives. Those Ginsus are everything you could ever have hoped for in a set of knives. They can cut through a tin can and still slice a ripe tomato without shredding it. Isn’t that amazing? A divorce can do that too. It cuts through all the bullshit you’ve had to put up with and leaves you smelling like a rose.    

3 Things Divorcees Wished They'd Known Pre-Divorce [EXPERT]
Is divorce the answer?
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3 Things Divorcees Wished They'd Known Pre-Divorce

Statistics tell a sad tale about marriage in America today. Although the divorce rate has dropped slightly in the last two years, first marriages are ending at an alarming rate of 45 to 50 percent, second marriages at a rate of 60 to 67 percent and third marriages fall apart like they have been hit with a wrecking ball at 70 to 73 percent. This makes a very compelling argument for living together after marriage number two.

10 Differences Dating Widows Vs Divorcees
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10 Differences Dating Widows Vs Divorcees

Six months after my husband died, I decided to venture out into the single’s world. I sauntered into a swanky downtown Chicago restaurant with a divorced female friend. She left me perched on a bar stool to go to the restroom. I stared at the glassware on the shelves behind the bar and a guy suddenly appeared, “So when did you get divorced? I replied, “I didn’t get divorced.” He said, “Well where’s your husband?”

I See Married People
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I See Married People

I SEE MARRIED PEOPLE I see married people. Everywhere. And they’re happy, at least to the naked eye. What goes on behind closed doors is anybody’s guess but that’s probably just the cynic in me talking. Truth be told, I keep my eyes open for these happy couples because I need to believe that that could be me again, one of these days; Happy and in love. As hard as I try, and I have tried, Lord knows, I have yet to give up on love completely even though it seems to have given upon me.

What Happens On The Other Side Of The Closet
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What Happens On The Other Side Of The Closet

In my last article I shared how staying in the closet saved my children’s lives, and helped them grow up to be open-minded, strong young ladies. However, there’s a third person in this equation that I want to now address – my ex-wife. The person who also lost life as she knew it, began second guessing herself, and ironically ended up finding out who she really was from this experience.

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How Can I Bounce Back Into Dating After Divorce?

After divorce, it isn't easy to get back into the dating game. You're so new to the whole process, that you may put it off or refuse to date entirely. However, putting yourself out there and seeing new people is one of the most important steps towards moving on.   Dating Coach Julianne Cantarella is here to guide you back into the world of dating.  In order to go on dates, you must find potential matches. Julianne suggests several ways in which you can meet a potential date.

It's Your Choice To Be More Positive
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It's Your Choice To Be More Positive

It’s no secret that people who are more positive are happier and attract more of what they want in their life.  You see it all around you. You notice people who have great jobs. You see smiling couples holding hands.   We all want to be fulfilled and happy, but how can you be more positive when negative thoughts are floating in and out of your mind all day?