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The Number One Mistake that Leads to Breakup or Divorce

The Number One Mistake that Leads to Breakup or Divorce

Most people give up or leave angry and hurt when their desires aren't met. There's a better solution

The most destructive and most common challenge I hear from my clients is when their partner's don’t exhibit the same level of desire for each other. It’s always one of the following two conversations. She’s too needy. He wants to do everything with me and it’s suffocating.  I feel like I can never satisfy her. I love him but I also need my own life and I feel guilty because I’m never enough for him.

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More reasons to rock out to your iPod.

Is Music As Good As Sex?

According to a new study, good tunes stimulate the same part of your brain as getting busy.

Crank up the volume. Researchers found that listening to a song you enjoy stimulates the same part of the brain as sex.

How To Share A Sexual Fantasy With Your Lover

How To Share A Sexual Fantasy With Your Lover

A new survey reveals that both men and women want to share fantasies with their lover. Here's how!

How long should you wait in a new relationship to share a fantasy with your lover? According to a new Durex survey, men say they want to share fantasies as soon as possible - within the first three months of a relationship. The women surveyed chose to wait a little longer to share their fantasy, reporting 6 months to a year of a relationship is time enough to build the trust to start having the intimate conversation about fantasies.

3 Ways Kinky Sex Is Like Spicy Food

3 Ways Kinky Sex Is Like Spicy Food

Ready to turn up the sexual heat?

50 Shades of Grey has given millions of people permission to begin exploring the kinkier side of sex. Attendance at fetish clubs and in online kinky communities are at an all-time high, and it is no longer taboo to admit your interest in exploring rough sex and role playing. As more and more people begin sampling from the banquet of BDSM and kink, it is important to remember that there is a wide spectrum of intensity to explore.

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Could this hot new romance novel help you connect with your sexual desire?

How Well Do You Know Your Own Desires?

New erotic romance S.E.C.R.E.T.: A Novel pushes readers to ask: what do I truly desire?

The best-selling 50 Shades of Grey trilogy brought mainstream attention to bondage, S&M, and other subversive sex acts. But a new erotic romance titled S.E.C.R.E.T. doesn't just portray fantasies — it teaches readers how and why they might want to explore their own.

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Enjoy some sweet, intimate playfulness with your loved one.

New Study Says People Prefer Playful Partners

In not-so-surprising news, people value a sense of humor and playfulness in relationships.

I have to admit, when I jumped head-first into my current relationship back in April, I didn't put much thought into exactly why I was attracted to my now-boyfriend. However, thanks to science, I can confidently say that his non-aggressive nature and unlikeliness to harm me or my potential future offspring earned him major points.

Golden Pussy Revisited

Golden Pussy Revisited

Will someone please tell me how to get a man pussy whipped? The experts are not taking me seriously

by Julie Robinson Have you ever sought advice for your love life? Maybe you read self-help dating books or write to “experts” asking for advice. Like most of us, you probably consult your friends. Not too long ago, I wrote an article for Dating Sauce where I shared a story and asked for help on a topic close to my heart—I wanted to learn how to get a Golden Pussy.

Jealousy - How to understand it and let it go

Jealousy - How to understand it and let it go

The pangs of jealousy! Sarita reveals it's roots and how to let go of this most painful emotion.

Jealousy is a red hot topic! So many people have asked me in groups and healing sessions over the years how to deal with jealousy, how not to feel it, how to transcend it. It is good to understand that in fact, if we are jealous of someone, this feeling comes about because we are projecting some un-lived aspect of ourselves onto the person we are jealous about. We are imagining that this person is able to have a level of fulfillment that we are denied.

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A single touch can make a big difference in your body chemistry.

On Fire With Desire: How A Single Touch Can Make You Want Sex

A new study says that the male touch just might be too hot for you to handle...

Picture this: You're on a date, things are going "meh," but then all of a sudden he puts his hand on your knee, or even worse, on your cheek. Then before you can even take stock of what's going on, you feel an instant connection and things are no longer so "meh." You're thinking that chemistry has just transpired between you, and there's no escaping it. Well, settle down, because new research shows that it's a bit of a biological trick.

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Eating lobster is a big-time turn-on for her.

Love Bytes: What Turns YOU On?

Plus, 15 ways to impress him.

What really turns us on? A BMW motorcycle led to 2 years of priapism. Do you know what clausterphilia is? How to impress him and his bros. What not to do when a bachelor party ruins your golf outing. What our grandparents can teach us about marriage. 10 apps to keep us on the same page. Should dudes get alimony? The Sex And The City apartment was just sold! 10 Mother's Day gifts even a mother could love. How to work through your guy's family drama.

25 Benefits Of Working With The Bedroom Joyologist

25 Benefits Of Working With The Bedroom Joyologist

I have checked these things off my list and now I am here to help you do the same.

For The Conscious Woman With a Conservative Background I have checked these off my list (although always working on it!) and now I'm here to help you do the same. Wake up with more excitement for the day to come. Experience more motivation to take better care of yourself. More passion, purpose and direction in life.