DATING TIPS

Lots has been written about why men pass up older women, but why would a woman not want to be with a mature, relationship-oriented man? Let us count the ways:

The best way to establish and maintain instant dating rapport is to talk about the other person, not you. Successful dating starts with successful conversations! Successful conversations are sustained by placing full attention on the person in front of you.

Dating is entrenched with emotions and uncertainties. And because dating is infused with intense passion and unpredictability, there is a propensity for extreme volatility. There is a way to diffuse the emotional apprehension…

Successful dating starts with effective communication. Texting is not an effective way to communicate with a stranger. If you don’t know someone, why are you texting them?

It’s all about the first kiss! Kissing is the gateway to intimacy. And the first kiss is a window into what intimacy could be like…

Hate to break it to ya: Chasing white-hot chemistry is the WORST way for you to create a successful long-term relationship.

Why women shouldn't let the rules of attraction get them down.

The secret to love is finding a man whose communication style you can accept. Try to change him and you're the one who's going to lose.

Often women meet men to whom they are attracted, yet seem to “freeze” when the man shows he is interested. It’s not that she doesn’t know how to flirt, she has done her “flirt” thing effectively, but when, in fact, Mr. Available moves forward and reciprocates, she feels awkward, uncomfortable and confused. There are a variety of possible feelings to consider that maybe be at the cause of the “freeze” including:

It’s pathetic how easily I can find my self acting like the insecure kid I was in high school. These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially like and admire, and get the sense they don’t return the feeling. I can get to feeling so hurt and undeserving that I turn into a withdrawn ball of mush.

If your dating profile is filled with demands then you need to take a better approach. Read the blog below for tips. Also, check out http://trysweettalk.com for more tips, profile samples and podcasts.

Five doable, fun ideas for dates. They're more interesting that dinner, but not so crazy that you won't really try them.

“My, what a long arm you have!” and other drawbacks of taking your own #dating profile picture.

As spring quickly turns to summer, the warm weather becomes a haven for people to mingle, laugh and enjoy time together outdoors. For those who are looking to meet someone, this also opens up a variety of options for fun, impressive date ideas. There’s a natural “feel-good” reaction when the sun comes out. Maybe this is the reason that so many marriages take place during the summer months.

Biggest complaint by men dating online? Endless emails. Dumbest complaint? Endless emails.