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Dating Tips From A Reality TV Casting Director

In a former life filled with long lunches and spray tanning, I was a reality show casting director in Hollywood. I worked on some wildly popular prime-time hits as well as some pilots that never saw the light of day. I started my career at Blind Date, back when MySpace was still a place for friends and Facebook was a twinkle in Mark Zuckerberg's eye, and I'd often turn to this "new online world" to search for contestants. Dating tips gleaned from casting The Bachelor and other reality TV shows. I had just started dabbling in online dating myself and navigated the virtual waters with ease. I'd post clever ads on Craigslist and flirt with guys on Friendster, all in the name of casting the show. But try as I might, I couldn't always rely on the Internet to find willing male participants—I actually had to go out and meet men. In real life. I was very shy. I'd sweat in the weirdest places when my nerves would kick in. So whether on the clock or not, I would always say I was "casting a show" when I'd approach good-looking men. That way, I'd never feel jilted if they declined my advances. But casting the shows taught me how to build my self-confidence and, frankly, helped me meet a lot of guys. Even an '80s teen icon. Sadly, most guys I encountered were of the typical vapid L.A. fare, leaving me to kiss a lot of bottom-feeding mouth breathers before I actually met a nice, normal, gainfully employed gent (a qualification both for myself and most of the shows I worked on). And this got me thinking—what else did casting reality dating shows teach me about life and love?

ONLINE DATERS SUCCESS HABITS
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ONLINE DATERS SUCCESS HABITS

2010 Boomer Trend Report: 7 Highly Effective Habits of Successful Online Daters: I'd hear countless stories about people meeting online and marrying; it just never happened to me. After six years of email exchanges, hundreds of dates and trips to California, Chicago and DC to meet people, I decided that if I was looking for someone serious, I'd better make a commitment too.

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5 Dating Tips From The Millionaire Matchmaker

Jimmy D. swore up and down that he was ready for a real, deep woman (and for once, he wasn't talking about her cleavage). After a near-death experience (he was beaten and lost…an eyelid?) he was ready to find real love. Mateo swore up and down that the most important thing to him was his woman's religion; he wanted to raise a Christian family. What did both guys do at the mixer? The exact opposite of what they said!

5 Shockingly Good Dating Tips From "The Bachelor"
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5 Shockingly Good Dating Tips From "The Bachelor"

The women told all, Rozlyn denied everything, and who knows how many production assistants burnt their fingers lighting a hundred, thousand tea lights. Much to our surprise, however, the show yielded some heartfelt, real-world dating tips that could help all of us find love. (Or at least a very, very special connection!) Remember these dating tips the next time you spot that special bachelor or bachelorette.

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Rekindling An Old Flame?

Rekindlers: Making Connections after Years Apart. Reuniting with a long lost love is becoming more and more common...but is it the right decision for you? For them? Find out if you are making the right decisions for the right reasons...

Twitter Top 10: Guys To Follow For Love Advice
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Twitter Top 10: Guys To Follow For Love Advice

Here, we present you with the top 10 guys you should be following on Twitter, guys who tweet about love, dating, relationships and the bro code. Because sometimes it's nice to have that demystifying male perspective. Follow these guys for love, dating and relationship advice, plus insight into the male mind.

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Twitter Top 10: Who To Follow For Dating Advice

You're on Twitter, right? Then we assume you're already following us. After all, we always tweet the latest news and advice on love and relationships. But if you're looking for more new tweeps to follow—ones who can give you the lowdown on dating—have we got the list for you. Check out our list of the top 10 tweeps who tweet about dating, all YourTango-approved.

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Love Bytes: Awkward Engagement Photos

10 must-click love and relationship links: awkward engagement photos, poker and body language, the 7 types of love, lowering teen pregnancy rates, rejecting drinks at a bar, save marriage with snoring device, and healthy alternatives to single gal comfort foods.

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The 7 Deadly Sins Of Dating

How come your relationships don't last—or never even get started? Here are seven ways you might be sabotaging your chances of finding love without knowing it. If you recognize yourself in the list below, consider doing a little soul searching so you can get out of your dating rut and back on the path to finding The One.

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How To Seduce Difficult Women

Certain men—gays and hairstylists among them—have a particularly astute handle on what women want. Richard Temtchine, who is decidedly not the former but who was, for 22 years, the latter, is one of these men—and he's translated this insight into his new film, How To Seduce Difficult Women, opening in New York City on Friday. The Paris-born Temtchine wrote, directed and produced the film, which follows Philippe, a married Frenchman living in New York, as he instructs hapless American men in the art of seduction, while sustaining ample practice himself with various mistresses. Temtchine came up with the idea after running into an acquaintance who struck him as a particularly difficult woman, and realizing he had the tools to make her soften, if not melt.