to the YourTango newsletter!

Continue to Site »»

ProConnect
5 Inexpensive Fall Date Night Ideas [EXPERT]
Romance should be wherever you and your honey are.

5 Inexpensive Fall Date Night Ideas

Strapped for cash? Don't let your date night suffer! Check out these five affordable, autumn ideas.

People are really watching their money. (Can you really blame them?) But just because you've tightened the purse strings doesn't mean your romantic life should feel the pinch.

Community
How I Became a Successful Matchmaker

How I Became a Successful Matchmaker

Renowned matchmaker Rachel Greenwald shares how she turned her passion into a career...

By Rachel Greenwald | genConnect "How did you get such a fun job?" I'm frequently asked. Well, I'm 48 years old now, but not too long ago I graduated from Harvard Business School (okay, it was 19 years ago, but it feels like yesterday). I was on the business fast-track selling designer water to supermodels at Fashion Week in New York City.

ProConnect
Dating After Divorce? 3 Pitfalls To Avoid [EXPERT]
Got baggage? No problem!

Dating After Divorce? 3 Pitfalls To Avoid

Are you newly single? Learn to side-step these 3 dating blunders!

Whether you've already started dating after divorce, or you're about to take the plunge, chances are good you're going to be tempted to give in to three behaviors that will sabotage either your ability to move on from your marriage, or seriously reduce the chance you'll find a wonderful new man. Here are three post-divorce dating dangers and how you can avoid them.

ProConnect
Why He Keeps You Waiting By The Phone & How To Handle It [EXPERT]
Think before you text!

Why He Keeps You Waiting By The Phone & How To Handle It

Before you get impatient and call him, consider this advice.

Has this ever happened to you? You meet a new guy for coffee and have a great first date. The week goes by. He texts once or twice, but does not ask about the weekend. Then, he finally calls you, on Friday, to talk about the weekend. "Are you free tonight?" he asks. Well, you purposely left the weekend open hoping he would call. So you say, "Yes". You go out and have another great date. Then, you don't hear from him all week, except for some texting. This time, you can't take it. You want to know what is going to happen for the weekend. You can't stand this waiting game.

ProConnect
How Love Can Take You By Surprise

How Love Can Take You By Surprise

So, what do wild parrots and dating have to do with one another? I am going to tell you.

So, what do wild parrots and dating have to do with one another?  I am going to tell you.  But first, in case you’re not from around here, it is useful to know that all over California there are flocks of wild parrots. They’re not native to the area, so dozens or even hundreds of birds must have either escaped or were released into the wild. When you live here, every once in awhile, you will stop and say, “Look!  There go the wild parrots!”

ProConnect
ANOTHER WONDERFUL PROFILE

ANOTHER WONDERFUL PROFILE

I wrote this profile for a client about a year ago.

I wrote this profile for a client about a year ago.  What’s interesting is that I really loved it but she didn’t use it.  I don’t know for certain why, but I think it described her to a tee and it might have felt too revealing for her at the time. When we spoke tonight, she told me that she was back on Match.com and asked if I still had the profile.  This time she loved it and said that she’s ready to put it up.

ProConnect
3 Ways Singles Lose Themselves When Finding New Love

3 Ways Singles Lose Themselves When Finding New Love

How to avoid common dating mistakes while developing a new relationship.

There is no feeling on earth quite as amazing as the feeling of being in love.  There is a surge of endorphins and dopamine pumping through your veins giving you the feeling of being on cloud nine.  There is a drop in serotonin which causes you to obsessively think about your beloved and the release of oxytocin and vasopressin causes you feel as if there is nothing you will not do to make the object of your affection happy.  You are literally drunk on love, however, no matter how intoxicating the experience of falling in love is, you must keep your wits about you and not commit the common 4 m

ProConnect
How I Became An Online Dating Coach [EXPERT]
I started out online dating just like you!

How I Became An Online Dating Coach

... featuring an essay by YourTango Expert Erika Ettin!

Ah, online dating. Some people love it. Some people hate it. I'm in the former category, and I always tell skeptics, if you meet the love of your life online, you won't care how the heck you met — you'll just be thrilled that you did!

ProConnect
Will You Make Room For Love?

Will You Make Room For Love?

You stop sabotaging love and marriage, when you make simple shifts in your dating mindset.

Are you really ready to make room for love in your life?  Many single men and women say they desire love and romance, yet secretly they harbor fears of how a relationship may alter their comfortable routines.  It is this fear of change that sabotages many budding relationships, as you think to yourself -- I love my life the way it is.  Why change it? Are you so cozy in your life that you won't make room for love? Do you think that a potential love match will expect you to change to fit into their lifestyle?

ProConnect
Dating To Find Love: Should You Do An Exit Interview?

Dating To Find Love: Should You Do An Exit Interview?

Find out if you're doing or saying things on dates to sabotage love and marriage, without knowing it

If your potential romances seem to fizzle out without an apparent reason, you may be stuck in dead-end dating habits without knowing it. Find out how one dating coach used her Harvard Business School savvy to develop a bold dating strategy that could transform your dead-end dating habits. What is this bold dating strategy? Bestselling author and Harvard MBA, Rachel Greenwald, recommended that you do a dating exit interview of your ex-dates to get feedback on what went wrong or right so that you can improve your interactions with future dates.

ProConnect
5 Rules For Choosing Your Online Dating Photos
Stand out from the crowd to capture his attention online.

5 Rules For Choosing Your Online Dating Photos

Don't let Mr. Right pass you by!

In online dating, making a good first impression is key. People can easily pass over your profile with the blink of an eye if they don't immediately see something they like. A recent study actually confirmed that men are extremely visual, looking mostly at the photos and less at the profile, making it even more important for women to choose wisely.