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Make Him Obsessed With You
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Make Him Obsessed With You

Make Him Obsessed With You You're about to hear something so outrageous that it’s going to blow your mind out of this world!!! What you will hear in just a few moments about men, is going be so jaw dropping that you will think it’s insane to even listen to something so un real… Everything you have ever read about men, attraction, lust, and dating is going to be a lie after this crazy secret is revealed to you!!!!

How to Date After Divorce
You don’t have to date like a rock star or a super model out of the gate!
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How to Date After Divorce

Divorced and looking to get back out there again? Read these awesome tips on how to feel confident, start dating, and have fun.

Dating After a Break Up Or Divorce
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Dating After a Break Up Or Divorce

Okay, so you’ve read my article on when to start dating again after a break up or divorce and you’re confident that you’re 100% ready to get back out there. Congratulations! But wait – before you sign up for Match.com and start winking at people, let’s make sure you’re really prepared by going over the behaviors that can make or break a first date. If you haven’t dated in a while, reviewing this list will definitely help you get to the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th date – and maybe even to “I do”.

When To Start Dating After A Break Up Or Divorce
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When To Start Dating After A Break Up Or Divorce

After a particularly painful break up or divorce, it’s crucial that you take the time to grieve and heal from the hurt. You have to learn to accept the separation and work on yourself, so when you DO reenter the dating world, you do so in a positive and constructive way, unburdened by any past baggage and poised to build a relationship that will withstand the test of time.

Seasonal Split Up; When The Holidays Become The Enemy
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Seasonal Split Up; When The Holidays Become The Enemy

As much as I enjoy the enormously busy season from Halloween through New Year's, I'm relieved just as equally that it's over. I managed to make it through constructing another homemade costume that kept me up more hours than I can recall. I survived a massive food overhaul that provided enough leftovers to stockpile the fridge for at least a week thereafter. My finances were pinched yet wisely managed when it came down to the annual gift purchasing, wrapping, and eventual dispersing among friends and family.

The Only New Year's Resolution You Need To Make
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The Only New Year's Resolution You Need To Make

I started out writing a list of New Year's Resolutions to recommend for this post – a collection of a few that I had made myself over the years.  As I reviewed the list I started crossing some off, and then I started combining the similar ones.  I soon realized it really all came down to one single, simple resolution.   Just one simple goal to strive for this coming year (which is so much easier because it’s hard enough to keep just one resolution!).  In 2013, this will become our mantra: Refuse to Settle for Anything Less Than You Deserve. &

5 Tips To Make Your New Years Resolutions Stick
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5 Tips To Make Your New Years Resolutions Stick

The New Year is right around the corner and with that comes the opportunity for you to create some big changes in your life. Let’s face it, most of us make all sorts of resolutions when the New Year rolls around and most times, they never really stick. As Chicago’s resident gay dating coach, this time of year is always fairly busy for me because I have guys who really want to make changes towards finding their ultimate happiness.

6 Dating Behaviors Guaranteed To Scare Men Away
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6 Dating Behaviors Guaranteed To Scare Men Away

  So, you are dating a guy, and it's the crucial first few weeks.  You really like this guy, and you are wondering what you can do (or avoid doing) to keep this relationship going and not scare him away.   The truth is there are certain things that women can do that will scare men away every single time.  Don't sabotage a potentially great relationship that could have gone somewhere by scaring a man off right at the beginning.  

Being Afraid To Love
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Being Afraid To Love

Love is a tricky thing. It can change you in a good way and a bad way. When you have had failed relationships more than successful ones, it is easy to close yourself off even when someone who enters your life who would be perfect for you. I have never truly been in love. In the past I thought I was in love twice, but now that I revisit those memories and relationships I realize that those weren't true love. They were faux relationships.

'I Choose': A Poem About Life
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'I Choose': A Poem About Life

Today I Choose to sit quietly in the sun and watch copper winged dragonflies I Choose to be still and listen I Choose to be open to whatever presents itself I Choose to be kind and refrain from judgement of others I Choose to drink copious amounts of tea I Choose to purge my thoughts and feelings and writewritewrite until there is nothing left inside to come out

Are You Ready to Date? 5 Considerations Before Jumping Back In
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Are You Ready to Date? 5 Considerations Before Jumping Back In

"All discarded lovers should be given a second chance... just with someone new." - Mae West   As a divorce coach, I often watch my clients jump from the hot bed of separation and divorce right into another disastrous relationship. When we lose our lovers through a divorce, it is often the case that we run right into dating as a way to build our self-confidence and fill the void within our hearts. But are we ready? Really ready? Or are we setting ourselves up for another heartache?

Mars, Venus, Dating and Intuition
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Mars, Venus, Dating and Intuition

After getting out of a relationship, sometimes the thought of getting back into a relationship remains just that, a thought. We can become immobilized with indecision, because we fear that we’ll make a character mistake again, or that we won’t listen and honor the nudges from our intuition telling us if she or he’s good for us or not. So how do we discern which little voice in our head is our intuition speaking, and which voices are just that—noises of self-loathing, self-derision, self-denial, self-absorption, and self-esteem?