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Sometimes laughter really is the best medicine!

4 Ways To Add Laughter To Your Love Life

How to add some comedy to your dating life.

"Laughter is the best medicine" is probably one of the most overused clichés. But so what? A chuckle or giggle can do wonders for the soul — not to mention your dating life.

Are You A Good First Date? [EXPERT]
Where do you rank when it comes to making a good first date impression?

Are You A Good First Date?

Are your first dates a hit-or-miss experience? Or more like a hit and run?

Let's analyze your most recent first dates. Go ahead, take a plunge into your calendar these past twelve months and make a list, rating each on a 1-5 scale, with one being milquetoast and five being magical. We're doing some research here to determine the answer to the question: how good of a date are you?

5 Signs You Are A Dating Snob [EXPERT]
Don't shut yourself off from the dating scene.

5 Signs You Are A Dating Snob

Do you think you're better than other singles?

Every once in a while, I meet a potential client whom I consider to be a dating snob. What is a dating snob? Someone who thinks they are too good for everyone out there and would rather sit home alone or hang out with their married friends than mingle among other singles and subject themselves to singles events.

Cyber Cops from Hell

Cyber Cops from Hell

What not to do when dating online OR how to avoid a citation from cyber dating cops

by Julie Robinson   Dare I say it? I’ve been having some trouble with the police recently. No, I’m not getting pulled over for public nudity / speeding while intoxicated / cooking meth in a two-liter jug in the backseat of my Nissan crossover. No. The cops I’m talking about are those fucking annoying Craigslist self-appointed cyber cops who willy-nilly delete the, albeit, quasi-legitimate advertisements I post on Craigslist a regular basis trying to promote my totally legit business. Whew!

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Katniss Everdeen in "The Hunger Games."

3 Love Lessons From 'The Hunger Games'

Relationship tips from "The Hunger Games."

If any of you saw "The Hunger Games" recently, you were in for a bloodbath — a very entertaining, very well-produced bloodbath. I'm a huge fan of Suzanne Collins, and the movie was one of the best I've seen in a long time. But while I cheered for Katniss, cursed the gamekeeper, and threw popcorn at President Snow, I couldn't help but notice that some of the lessons of "Hunger Games" could also be applied to relationships.

Toxic Men
Watch out for the big, red flags the dude you're dating is decidedly toxic.

7 Signs You're Dating A Toxic Man

Are you with a toxic man? With Dr. Lillian Glass's new book as our guide, we'll find out.

I don't want you to be a woman ensnared by a toxic man (or woman—this book is for anyone, people), just because you didn't realize he was toxic. Neither does Dr. Glass. That is why the world needs this tome, because these men are harder to identify than you'd think. If in doubt, here are seven signs you might be dealing a toxic man.

7 Tips For Getting Back In The Sack After A Hiatus

7 Tips For Getting Back In The Sack After A Hiatus

Lucky Bloke has some sexy advice for getting your groove back.

So, you’ve found yourself treading into that oh-so-vulnerable territory of becoming sexually active again after a bit of a dry spell. Perhaps you’re cautiously re-entering the dating scene after ending a long-term relationship. Or maybe you’re eager for things to get hot and heavy sex  after being out of the swing of things for a bit. Stress. Kids. Work. Tension. We’ve all been there.

8 Things Baseball Can Teach Us About Love
Baseball seasons starts tonight.

8 Things Baseball Can Teach Us About Love

Baseball season starts tonight, and there are a few things sackers can teach us about love.

Whew. The Major League Baseball season is opening up today* and not a moment too soon, as the college basketball season came to a close a scant 36 hours ago and life would be awful if we just had the NBA and NHL to glance at over the rim of a pint glass.

Single Girl Shock Therapy

Single Girl Shock Therapy

What's worse--being the freak or being the bitch?

by Julie Robinson   He saw me before I saw him, so he may have even been watching me for a while sitting at the bar thinking about getting up the nerve to come over and talk to me. When he did make the call, got me to answer, and ambled on over, the first thing I noticed was the pancake make-up and blush. A split second after that I noted very bad, old hair plugs. On the other hand, it could have been a poorly constructed wig.

Are You "Too Busy" To Find Love?

Are You "Too Busy" To Find Love?

Break thru this barrier to love and get all the love you deserve with love advice from Socrates.

Want to fill a void in your love life?  Then heed the savvy love advice that Socrates shared over 2400 years ago: “Beware the barrenness of a busy life.” Are you too busy to find your great love match and form a fabulous intimate relationship?

date dating
On the first date, get to know each other -- but no funny business.

10 Reasons You Shouldn't Have Sex On The First Date

Sometimes, having sex on the first date is just a bad idea.

So you met this guy, right? And you went on a really awesome date. What better way to cap off a great night with a romp in the bedroom ... or not. Sometimes, having The Sex on the first date is just a bad idea.