There are over 100 million single adults over the age of 25 in our country, and for most of them, the thought of being single and dating is analogous to having a red hot poker jammed into their eye. Based on my research, most single women dislike dating and being single. When it comes to finding that special guy to share their life with, many of these women say that there is hope in their heart, but they honestly admit that they are not too optimistic that true love is in their future.
DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN
Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy only to discover months or years down the road that you were not a good fit for each other? Were there questions you had or things you saw that you never addressed? Well, I have found that if you are afraid to ask a question it's because you are afraid of the answer you will receive.
I think Kat Von. D. is insane. Now before you call the local mental hospital and reserve a bed and a straightjacket for her let me explain myself. Albert Einstein, one of the most intelligent men to ever walk the planet said “insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Have you ever had sex with a guy thinking that it was going to bring your relationship to the next level only to realize that as soon as he got “some” he quickly disappeared? Well, unfortunately you’re not alone. One of the biggest problems for single women is knowing when to sleep with a man. It is a question I am often asked and to be honest there is no magic answer that works for everyone.
I'm a reality show Junkie! I admit it! It doesn't make a difference if it's Gene Simmons' Family Jewels, Pawn Stars, The Real World, Jersey Shore, Celebrity Rehab or The Real Housewives of New Jersey. I find people so interesting. I love watching how people act in their lives. Now I realize that reality TV isn't very real and there is a lot of editing that takes place. But for the most part the way a person acts on TV is the way they are acting in their real lives.
As a matchmaker and dating coach in Washington, DC, a town full of sharp, successful, powerful women, I often hear the line, “Men are intimated by me”. When I hear this, I listen patiently and empathetically and then, when the time is right, I explain that it’s just not true. I speak with men every single day, and I have the inside scoop - the 411 on how men really feel.
We are all looking for that special someone to share our lives with… that certain someone who “fits” as if he or she was meant to be there. This exquisite person who is our one true love; the person designed as our match; our soul mate. For many people, this idea that they have one “ideal mate” is a concept they struggle with. When potential loves enter their lives, they are left wondering if there’s someone “better” out there.
If I hear another single woman tell me that men are only interested in getting laid I’m really gonna lose it. Now before I go any further I’m going to clarify and state that I understand there are some boys out there…ok lots of em…who are only interested in getting their wick dipped and could care less with whom and how it happens.
The other night I was watching Gene Simmons Family Jewels. Growing up I was a huge KISS fan. I went to my first Kiss concert w/my dad in 1979. And last year I got to experience the other side when I took my three sons to see the band for the first time. In last night’s episode Shannon Tweed , Gene Simmons’ live in girlfriend, and the mother of his children finally has enough of his rock star ways and his “it’s all about me, I’m a rock star” attitude.
Ladies, know that you don’t “owe” your boyfriend, or any man, anything when it comes to sex, whether it be giving him your virginity, enacting out a fantasy of his, or doing anything else he may request in bed. While I do encourage you to try new things with your guy when you’re comfortable and ready, you have a right to say no to any act you don’t want to perform. Period. A real man will respect that.
By Meagan McCrary Sex is a topic that most of us can't help talking about. It’s not the guys who share intimate details of their latest conquest with their buddies — it’s the ladies. Most women love to gab about their sexcapades. And when we do, we typically don’t hold anything back.
Have you ever uttered the phrase: "older guys are only interested in younger women"? If you haven't you're either still in high school or God has gifted you with incredible beauty and you get men hitting on you all the time.
Are you tired of being single? Have you ever considered online dating? I know the very idea of going online looking for love makes you feel like you're a loser. I can understand. If you would have told me when I was in my thirties that I would have met my wife online, I would have laughed in your face, called you a few choice names and bet everything I owned against it happening. But, no matter what I felt and believed at the time…I would have been wrong. Isn't it ironic how life works out?
Yes, I said it…Charlie Sheen would be a great date. Now before you get your panties in a bunch and call the National Women’s Organization, hear me out. Let’s look at Charlie Sheen. He’s got more money than he’ll ever need for 10 lifetimes, he’s famous, has GQ looks and is in very good physical condition for his age….but he’s a freakin’ mess! So, why would he be a great date? Well, let me explain.