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How to Handle Online Dating Burnout
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How to Handle Online Dating Burnout

Online dating isn't easy. It requires dealing with a certain amount of challenges and annoyances, and often requires sustained effort before you meet someone promising. However, when you're faced with too many annoyances and what seems like endless sustained effort, you may come down with a good case of online dating burnout. And when you do, your dating success will decrease. Here are some signs you suffer from online dating burnout:

When Is the Right Time to Have Sex with a Man?
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When Is the Right Time to Have Sex with a Man?

Today, I got the most frequently asked question in my email inbox. I get this every day from a woman regardless of the age. She could be in your 20s, 30s, 40s or even 50s. But every day—without fail—I get this e-mail: David, I've been dating this guy. When is the right time to sleep with him?  

7 Keys Women Need For Dating
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7 Keys Women Need For Dating

[Interview by Vitra Singh for Diva Gossip] Doing dating right can be a challenge for men and women who just want to meet “the right one.” Diving in haphazardly without stopping to think about what you are looking for, qualities that are essential, and how to bring up some tough talk can hurt more than help.

Dating 101: What I Learned in High School
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Dating 101: What I Learned in High School

High school was an absolute blast. I grew up in a 300-year-old community situated at the foothills of the Berkshire Mountains and an hour outside of Manhattan. Ridgefield, Conn., a town of roughly 25,000, was a fantastic place to grow up and an interesting place to learn about love. Since online dating wasn't as prevelant back then as it is today, there isn’t much to report on that front until my freshman year. Here's a year-by-year rundown of what high school taught me about dating.

How Does Saying Yes Benefit Me In Dating?
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How Does Saying Yes Benefit Me In Dating?

Yes.   It is one of the first words we ever say and it only seems to get more difficult to say as time passes. In fact, as a child, we say "Yes" to pretty much anything. Yes to checking out the pool before we know how to swim, yes to sharing an ice cream cone with the dog, yes to chasing the Nerf ball (do they still make those?) into I-85. We are open to any possibility, and naturally possess what I like to call the “yes stance.”

3 Traps To Avoid When Talking To Your Man
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3 Traps To Avoid When Talking To Your Man

Women often complain that it's hard to get a man to talk. Or, when they do sit down and talk with a man, that he gets resistant or argumentative, doesn't tell the full truth or just tells her whatever he thinks she wants to hear. Why does he do this? Often, it's because he's had bad experiences talking with you or other women and has developed some defense mechanisms to avoid further punishment.

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Don't dread your 50s ... embrace them!
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5 Reasons To Look Forward To Your 50s ... In Bed

And then you blink, and you are in our 50s. You finally get to start living some of your dreams instead of just planning them. All your experiences before then — the joyful, educational and even the painful — prepared your for creating a delicious life in the years ahead — a life that most definitely includes grownup love.

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Wolf whistles, catcalls -- whatever you call 'em, you either like 'em or hate 'em.
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In Praise Of Wolf Whistles & Why Women Like Them

When a man whistles at you, how does that make you feel? According to the Daily Mail, an old-fashioned wolf whistle encourages 38 percent of women to stick to their diets and 54 percent of those asked admitted they loved receiving one. Clearly many women think it's flattering.

Don't Judge A Guy By His Looks
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Don't Judge A Guy By His Looks

 It’s true that guys normally consider first impressions solely upon the looks of the female. However, women are equally guilty. Can you honestly say that you would want to be approached by the least attractive guy in the room? This type of behavior can be very detrimental when it comes to seducing a guy. At the end of the day, guys like to be appreciated for who they are and not what they look like; just as you do.

3 Men You Should Avoid
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3 Men You Should Avoid

Once you’ve done your research about how to get a guy, it’s common to want to put all that you’ve learned in action. However, you must be careful! Below are three types of guys that you should stay clear of while in the dating scene. Sadly, these types of men are often glamorized; making them seem like viable options, but they should be avoided.

 5 Tips for a Great First Phone Call
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5 Tips for a Great First Phone Call

Many of my dating coaching clients have questions about what to ask during the first phone call. They want to know how to quickly weed men out. Understandably, most busy midlife women say they don't have time to waste on the wrong men. What I have found over the past 10 years as a dating coach, and from dating to find my own husband, this can be trickier than you think. If you mess up  the first phone call, you could end up with few first dates and keep yourself single.