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The User
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The User

If you have ever met this person I hope they didn't get to take much from you while they were in your life. I unfortunately had this person in my life as well and luckily for me it was short lived. I am talking about the user. The guy or girl that wants to keep up with their "image" through someone else's means or their own friends. There is always going to be someone in your life that takes more than they should and it isn't being reciprocated. They could also want you for your friend which can be embarrassing and humiliating.

The Ins & Outs Of Texting & Dating [EXPERT]
What's your preferred means of communication?
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The Ins & Outs Of Texting & Dating

The hierarchy of dating communication goes as follows: text message, chat, email, phone call. Text is largely considered the lowest level in the food chain of communication. Although, arguably, Facebook chat is lower. I mean, at least you need someone's cell phone number in order to text, right? Yet, I love texting.

What He Really Thinks About Your Dress
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What He Really Thinks About Your Dress

So you’re dating a guy. The two of you are about to go out. Do you notice how you can ask him how your dress looks on you and he’ll answer with “okay”. His answer is usually always positive. “Yes, it looks okay on you.” Whenever a man says that, you know what he’s telling you? He’s telling you that it just looks okay on you. He’s never going to tell you that he doesn’t like it because he doesn’t want to rock your confidence.

21 Questions To Ask Yourself When Looking For Love
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21 Questions To Ask Yourself When Looking For Love

Let's think of dating as a journey that you'll love, when you identify your ideal destination and create a dating map of your preferred route to get there. How do you create your dating map? By identifying where you are now and where you want to be. By identifying obstacles to avoid.  By choosing the best path and partner for a delightful journey to a destination you both love.  How do you start creating your dating map?

Top 10 Things People Do Wrong When Looking for a Date
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Top 10 Things People Do Wrong When Looking for a Date

“They don't even see me!” “I repel good-looking women!” “I'm just not in the same league with the guys I'm interested in!” Finding a date can be rough. You try to look your best and act in way that will attract the right kind of attention from the right kind of person, but it isn't working. After several failed attempts, it may seem to you that the people you'd like to date aren't interested in you and never will be. It might even feel like nobody wants to date you.

Are you an Olympian of LOVE?
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Are you an Olympian of LOVE?

The Olympics start tomorrow, and I can’t wait! I am jumping out of my skin with excitement for the opening ceremony. I was watching Oprah’s Next Chapter last Sunday, where she salutes Super Star Olympians. One of my favorite interviews was with Carl Lewis who is a former track athlete and has won 10 Olympic medals. Holy shit! Yes 10, nine of which were gold. He said something so profound that I HAD to share it with all of you. I was inspired.

Online Dating Is Just Like Online Shopping [EXPERT]
Which man do you want to try on?
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Online Dating Is Just Like Online Shopping

Watch out Match.com! CheckHimOut.com is connecting with every single woman's inner shopping Goddess. This online dating site is different than all the rest, and I've tried plenty of them out. I signed up for this site and picked out my user-name, password and email then eagerly verified my account when I received my validate now email from this interesting site.

Is Fear Of Rejection Hurting Your Dating Opportunities? [EXPERT]
Nobody likes a scaredy cat.
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Is Fear Of Rejection Hurting Your Dating Opportunities?

We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I'm sure you've encountered your share of "pingers" — the disappearing men, needy men and players as you meet single men. I get it, and you belong to a large, loving sisterhood. But it's not only us gals who have dating disasters ... Men have their fair share of icky, confusing, ego-crushing experiences too. Previously, I've introduced you to The Princess and The 18 Year Old but today, you'll learn about the Scaredy Cat. Deep down, the Scaredy Cat feels unworthy and afraid to receive love and attention, especially from potential romantic partners. She has been wounded by past relationships and hasn't been able to move on emotionally. While she carries these wounds below the surface and aren't there for all to see, given the proper trigger (like a man not calling exactly when he says he will), her fear can take center stage at a moment's notice.

Love Test - Is Your Date Too Good To Be True?
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Love Test - Is Your Date Too Good To Be True?

Ever sense that your special date is too focused on fun to settle down in a relationship? Does your date say and do everything right–except commit to a relationship? It doesn't matter if you're seeking your great love match through online dating, matchmaking services or in chance meetings. When you date to find love, you need to recognize dates who just might be too good to be true to you. How do you decide if a dating relationship works for you? I'll walk you through the process.

“I HATE DATING!”
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“I HATE DATING!”

As a dating coach, all daylong I sit and listen to my clients moan about how much they hate dating. Welcome to the club. Sure, dating isn’t the most fun thing to do in life, but if you want to have an extraordinary, passionate, lasting romantic relationship in today’s world, you are going to have get over your big bad self and get out there and date to find one.

Playful Internet Dating Banter
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Playful Internet Dating Banter

Here are a couple of very funny email interactions from my best friend, Chloe, to two different men she was communicating with online. (If you haven’t read it already, I suggest reading her very funny profile in my posting from June 27th before proceeding.) Notice that her emails are mostly one-liners, she doesn’t pull any punches, and she isn’t afraid to get into a little sexual innuendo. Chloe is the ultimate Naked Dater! Hope you enjoy these as much as I did! CACowboy2013 Profile (this is all he wrote):

Divorced & Dating? Why You Haven't Met Mr. Right [EXPERT]
You don't have to be so lonely.
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Divorced & Dating? Why You Haven't Met Mr. Right

Do you think all single men are the same? Many women who are dating after a divorce (or any time) don't respect men. They don't value, like or appreciate men. You can tell by how they speak about men ... and it's understandable. Divorce is very hard, and many women have been hurt, disappointed, cheated on, controlled and/or lied to. Yet, these are the same women who are dating after divorce and want to find a loving man as a romantic partner.

Single? Why Men May Ignore You [EXPERT]
Do you ever go out to bars alone?
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Single? Why Men May Ignore You

Picture this: It's Friday night and you are dressed up, ready for a night out on the town with your friends. You hit the best night spots and have a blast, but you are bothered by the fact that all night, not one guy made a pass at you.

Facebook dating 101
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Facebook dating 101

If the friend of my enemy is my enemy, then is the friend of my date going to be my date? A lot of guys may want it that way. (and some girls too.) What about the Facebook friend of my date? Facebook doesn’t make it easy to keep your dating life on the down low. If you are Facebook friends with your date, then chances are she has her ways of finding out who else you are dating. And that’s a good thing in my book. If you are really trying to two-time your girlfriend with her best friend you should at least have the decency to be stealthy about it.