DeMistyfy Your Dating: Radio Interview: [EXPERT]

And yes, we spelled it that way for a reason! Listen to this humorous interview of Spike and learn!

So I met Coach Andrew Poretz about 4 1/2 years ago at a Quentin's Friends party in New York City. If you live in the tri-state area and you're not a member of QFNY, you need to be! There was immediate affinity, followed by hysterical laughter of everyone around us. Do you know what happens when 2 men have all around them laughing? They attract lots more people who also want to laugh. Big hint there guys.

3 Ways Singles Lose Themselves When Finding New Love

How to avoid common dating mistakes while developing a new relationship.

There is no feeling on earth quite as amazing as the feeling of being in love. There is a surge of endorphins and dopamine pumping through your veins giving you the feeling of being on cloud nine. There is a drop in serotonin which causes you to obsessively think about your beloved and the release of oxytocin and vasopressin causes you feel as if there is nothing you will not do to make the object of your affection happy. You are literally drunk on love, however, no matter how intoxicating the experience of falling in love is, you must keep your wits about you and not commit the common 4 m

The C-word

A lot of people cringe when they hear this word. But it has to be addressed or you’ll NEVER find...

Yes, I’m talking about the C-word today. A lot of people cringe when they hear this word. Some actually get a gut reaction and run away when it’s mentioned. But it has to be addressed- or you’ll NEVER find your true love and live your best life. The C-word I’m talking about is Commitment.

Men Are Simple

Women often give men credit for being more complicated than they are. Here's the plain truth.

I think it is appropriate that my first column should deal with the most fundamental truth about men, and that is this: Men are simple. I know some of you may be thinking that I’ve completely sold out my brethren in an effort to pander to my female readers and gain their trust. But that is just not true. Because “simple” is not bad, or inferior, or lacking value and substance. “Simple” means simply…not complex.

3 Ways Single Moms Can Feel Beautiful For Mother's Day [EXPERT]

... because single moms deserve to feel beautiful, too!

Here are three ways you can honor your beauty this Mother's Day.

First Date Advice for Women

Going on a first date? Get some great first date advice for guaranteed success.

If you are getting ready to go on a first date, or have already had a few that have been a bit of a disaster; you need to know some great first date advice. The time women take to prepare for their first dates, either takes several nerve-wracking days, a few hours before that first date, or minutes before without a second thought. Let’s remember that the first date is not a major life event.

Get Your Smooch On: 7 Ways To Get A Guy To Kiss You [EXPERT]

Want him to kiss you? Here's how to get him to go for it.

You could have a shy soul who wants to kiss you, but is awkward in the skills department. Not to worry, there are always ways to get a guy to kiss you.

River Of Love

Find The One? Nah! BE The One, and you’ll MAGNETIZE THE ONE. THAT’S the truth.

Todays message is infused with love. Look for it. Feel it. Enjoy it. What a beautiful day to be alive! Find The One? Naaahhhhhh…BE The One, and you’ll MAGNETIZE THE ONE. And THAT’S the truth. How does YOUR River flow? I used to think love was a far-off island. Then I thought it was a tough farm to plow, and work, and develop. Now I know love is a river, it flows without pretension, without judgment, and easily and freely to anyone and everything willing to step in and get wet.

Wear THIS—(Oh, God! Not THAT) on a First Date

A list of "What Not to Wear on a Date"--on steroids . . . .

by Julie Robinson Those happy couples always get me. This is especially true when I’m working retail and the giddy beyond fucking belief duos wander in together holding hands. The difference this time was that I recognized her. Sometimes this who-has-a-memory-like-that gift is a curse (like when I recognize students from years ago when they are completely inebriated) but in this case it was a gift.

Dating Advice: Looking for Love In All The Wrong Places [Expert]

How to stop repeating bad dating patterns & the 10 best places to look for a potential partner.

I am still amazed how many men and women complain about the difficulties they have enjoying a successful dating life. The sexes must learn how to open up and talk to each other without initial harsh judgment or sabotage due to their own subconscious insecurities. Men & women need to make an effort to understand their gender differences and embrace them instead of repelling away from them!

Single Over 50? Why You Should Try Online Dating [EXPERT]

Millions of 50+ singles use online dating sites and you can too!

Singles over 50 are the fastest-growing group using online dating sites to find love. Searching for love in mid-life has predictable challenges. Let's examine these challenges and show you how to overcome them to find love after 50.