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Do You Feel He's Just Not Into You?
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Do You Feel He's Just Not Into You?

What is this thing called love has been asked by a thousand Romeos, and dozens of songwriters, but these famous love quotes from movies give us the cinematic answer on one of life’s great mysteries or maybe as Woody Allen once quipped, “Love is the answer, but while you're waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions.   Read more at gossipwelove.com

How To Reconnect With Mr. Right
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How To Reconnect With Mr. Right

You had a great guy in your life and you let him go.  Now you regret it.  It may have been a high school guy buddy or an ex-boyfriend.  It may have been a guy that chased you for years and finally gave up since you were not interested.  Now you realize that you should have given him a chance because he is a GOOD MAN and not like the playas and bad boys you’ve always liked.  Now you are ready to settle down and realize that he would have made the best husband and father to your future kids than any other guy you’ve ever known.  So go get him!

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Do your text messages affect your emotional health?
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Dating Chemistry Test—How Texting Tests Emotional Health

Dating Question: I waited a few years after my wife died before I started dating a great woman, who's divorcing a jerky guy. For 2 months, we've had dinner together a couples times a week. we stay in touch each day by texting, "Miss You," or "Have fun today." Yesterday, I kept my cell off while I spent the day and had dinner with clients. Later I noticed she had sent me dozens of texts asking what was wrong and saying she doesn't like to be ignored. I immediately called her to say that nothing was wrong and I wasn't ignoring her. She said if I really cared about her, I would have answered her texts instead of torturing her with my silence. She said she wasn't sure she wanted to see me again because of this. I'm confused. I enjoyed her until she freaked out over one day away from texting. Can I send you her texts so you can figure out what happened?

Value Your "V"
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Value Your "V"

At one point or another we have been in a relationship or in love with a man who wasn’t quite feeling the same way in return. His friends or family would come around only for him to introduce you as his “friend” Tracey or Keisha or what ever your name happens to be. Although you two may be having sex, you never get the title of “girlfriend” no matter how hard you try to win his heart over and prove that you are the perfect girl for him.

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"Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game." - A Cinderella Story
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Are You Running Away From Love?

Everyone knows about the commitment-phobic guy, but what's really not talked about is the woman who shies away from a true connection. Not long ago, "Marin" asked me how to handle her avoidance of relationships. Witnessing her parents' divorce and experiencing the resulting trauma in the family, she'd made a conscious decision to make sure she never found herself trapped in a bad relationship. Like so many in her shoes, she was confusing the issues, and making choices based on the wrong criteria.

10 Tips for Meeting Your Match at the Gym
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10 Tips for Meeting Your Match at the Gym

The New Year is upon us and with it comes New Years resolutions. More people frequent the gym in January than during any other month. Here are 10 tips for singles who will be hitting the gym in January: 1. Don’t wear earphones. If you tune in to music on your ipod or watch TV while on the elliptical, you’re tuning out everyone around you. People who wear earphones are not approachable. Take them off!

Rules of Disengagement
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Rules of Disengagement

Believe me, I understand how strong the impulse to engage is, but you will be so proud of yourself when you resist it. Every single woman I spoke with reported how satisfied she felt when finally tak- ing control of this behavior. I know you can do this and I promise that you will feel relieved and powerful. Following these suggestions will help you break free. Quiz: Are You the One for Me?

Welcome Change to Attract a Perfect Relationship
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Welcome Change to Attract a Perfect Relationship

Holidays are the time when we feel the need to share ourselves with a loved one. It’s the time for connecting with our family, remembering our roots. It is also the time for reflection: Another year has gone by… What were my hopes for this year? Have I progressed in the direction I wanted to? For single people who are hoping to find a life partner this may be a bitter realization: Another year has gone by; I am still single. It hasn’t happened…

The Things We Do For Love
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The Things We Do For Love

Why we do some things, no one knows. But if we think it’s love, we’ll do it. Like telling someone we ski when we don’t. Because they’re into skiing and we want to do things with them and we just know it’ll be easy to pick it up. No, no, no. Do not do this. I learned this one the hard way. And ended up on the roof. Of a shed. On the slopes.

What Turns Him Off On a Date?
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What Turns Him Off On a Date?

What Happened On the Date that Turned Him Off? A friend of mine almost canceled a date with a guy because she woke up with a zit. She came over to my apartment freaking out: “How big is it? Is it all you can see when you look at me? Should I make up an excuse to cancel?”

How To Recognize A Boy From A Man: A Lesson In Love From Gene Sim
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How To Recognize A Boy From A Man: A Lesson In Love From Gene Sim

Guys Suck! They only care about Sex. They don't know how to treat a woman. If you’ve been single more than a week and dated more than one guy in your life I'd bet my life that you have used one or more of these statements at some time. And you know, you may be right. Because there are some men out there who can’t commit, who only are interested in women for what is between their legs and who will cheat on women at the drop of the hat.

Dating: Selected Versus Selective
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Dating: Selected Versus Selective

By Meagan McCrary I’m not sure who first came up with the concept of being selected versus being selective when it comes to relationships, but my co-author (and former roommate), Natasha Burton, brought it to my attention a few years ago when I was going through I very rough patch in my dating career. Talk about an ah-ha moment of clarity. Seemingly simple, to me, the concept was profound.

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Single Over 40? The Best Asset You Don't Know You Have

What's different about your dating landscape at 40 than it was 20 years ago? Everything. But many women still follow the "good old strategy" that says they just need to look good, play the dating game, and meet as many new people as possible. Sooner or later, they'll find a partner good enough to settle for. Common sense, right? Wrong.

Is It Male Midlife Crisis?
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Is It Male Midlife Crisis?

Most men don’t want to admit they might be going through midlife crisis. When a man does, it’s meaningful. I wrote a book on the topic, and right before I was ready to publish it, my computers were stolen and that book as well. I need to write it again, but first, because I have so many women who are begging for it, I’ve got to finish Feminine Grace.