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Part II: 7 Reasons Why A Man Would Never Know A Woman Is Cheating

Part II: 7 Reasons Why A Man Would Never Know A Woman Is Cheating

CHEATING SIGNS: PART II

1.Women are more skilled in relationships. This gives them a huge advantage when it comes to reading signs of infidelity or hiding their own. As John Gray points out in his bestselling book series “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus,” we are naturally more adept and more interested in people and in social interactions; men are more interested in things and in competition. According to Dr.

5 Hot New Year's Resolutions To Find Love Faster

5 Hot New Year's Resolutions To Find Love Faster

Is finding love one of your goals for 2013? Check out 5 savvy resolutions to find the right guy now

Are you single and hoping to find love in 2013?  Here are my five hot resolutions that will help you find love faster this year. Give it your best – after all, what have you got to lose? It’s the gain that is so exciting – attracting love into your life.

Would The Girl You Are Dating Want To Date Herself?

Would The Girl You Are Dating Want To Date Herself?

If the girl you are dating answers no to this question, then think twice before you proceed forward

Reality check:  Would the girl you are dating want to date herself? The scary thing is, most girls would not want to date themselves, because of their age, their immaturity, and wanting to play the field like men do. It is so hard being a woman trying to date, especially if living in a major city, having just relocated from a small town. This is the time when the super-slut comes out. It’s like being a kid in a candy store.

3 Common Misconceptions About Dating and What to Do About Them

3 Common Misconceptions About Dating and What to Do About Them

If something feels inauthentic or gamey, it probably is.

1.  I shouldn’t have to date.   Many people believe that falling in love should happen organically.  I agree.  But for that to happen, you need to increase your exposure to other single people, especially as you get older.  That’s why you need to date.  Otherwise, how are you going to meet this person?  But there is another, even more important reason to date.  Let’s face it.  Men and women are really different.  Successful relationships occur when two people can come together and embrace those diff

Why Do Men Run From The Altar?

Why Do Men Run From The Altar?

Let’s see if we can figure this out together. You have the altar, the man and you. What is the one variable you can change in this equation? For all those that say “the man,” please stop reading here. You have flunked this question. If your answer is “you,” please continue reading, because you are taking responsibility regardless of who is at fault. And when you take responsibility, you now have an opportunity to reach the outcome you desire.

Why Do Women Treat Some Men Like Kings and Others Like..

Why Do Women Treat Some Men Like Kings and Others Like..

Where is thou Romeo?

Unfortunately, if you are a man in today’s society, money is the root to all evil. Women are seeking stability and someone to endure the financial burden. Therefore, if you don’t make a great deal of money, you might be viewed as disposable to women. Not all women are like this, but there are enough gold diggers out there that you might run into a few. Immaturity and youth

How Important Is It to Be Equally Yoked In a Relationship?

How Important Is It to Be Equally Yoked In a Relationship?

We often may not fully realize how small differences in our ideologies can later lead to separation.

When we make friends, we migrate to seek others with similar interests. Football fanatics like to hang with other footballers, yelling at the screen as if their “couch-coaching” is somehow going to affect the results of the play. Movie buffs enjoy a good dissection of the latest psychological thriller’s “real” meaning, and guys who enjoy a choice wine or maduro cigar will soon make friends with other connoisseurs.

How Do You Detect a Woman Who Is A Relationship Manipulator?

How Do You Detect a Woman Who Is A Relationship Manipulator?

What is really on her mind concerning men and the role they play in her life?

Dating is hard enough, but when you know there are types of women you have to watch out for, you can almost think twice about it. When you join a dating site or you are out at night in a bar or club, most likely you will meet a few nice women out having a good time. How do you determine which women are genuine?  It can be hard, because the women that have become street-smart and manipulative have skills for days. Those skills have been built up to a level that can be almost scary.

What to Bring to His Place (and What Not to Leave) When You Visit

What to Bring to His Place (and What Not to Leave) When You Visit

Believe it or not you can scare a man just by what you bring to his house when you spend the night!

Ending up at his place for the first few times is pretty exciting and nerve-wracking all on its own. Understanding that what you do and how you act during these first few experiences at cohabitation will tell your man more about you than any words ever could. Understanding a few key points can help you show the man of your dreams that you are fun, sexy, and responsible. He’ll begin to see you as a good caregiver and someone indispensable in his life over your first few visits to his place - or you could show him that you are definitely not the one.

How To Embrace Your Relationship Status

How To Embrace Your Relationship Status

Single or in a complicated relationship? Embrace where you're at and open your heart to love.

The Cycle of Being Single, Dating, in Relationships, Breaking Up, etc. Every relationship status (e.g. single, in a relationship, separated, engaged, married, divorced) presents opportunities for us to enjoy and embrace. At different times in my life, I wasn’t able to fully enjoy all of my relationship statuses. When I was single, I wanted to be in a relationship. When I was in a not-so-good relationship, I wanted to be single. When I experienced a painful breakup, I wanted to be in a good place as a single person.

The ABC’s of Shopping With a Woman

The ABC’s of Shopping With a Woman

How to turn the woes of shopping with a lady into a fun and exciting experience.

So, your new girlfriend has asked you to go shopping with her. First, you panic. No, she doesn’t necessarily mean for you to buy everything she tries on. She might simply want your company during what most girls consider a wonderful way to pass the time. When a woman asks you to accompany her shopping, it would be a good idea to clarify what kind of shopping she’s interested in doing, e.g., shopping for a specific event, shopping for sale items, shopping for a gift, shopping because it’s Tuesday or simply window shopping– this, of course, means she just