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Avoid this Guy! 14 Reasons To Dump Him

When I look back at all the relationships that didn’t work out (that I so wanted to at the time), I realize that in every case, there were early warning signs that each guy gave me that could have given me some idea of the heartbreak I was about to experience if I had only been aware of what to look for. To spare you from what happened to me, to give you the inside scoop on what you can be on the lookout for, here’s my list of the warning signs that clearly let you know that this is a guy to avoid if it's a real relationship you're looking for.

What Men Really Think About You in the Club
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What Men Really Think About You in the Club

Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends. Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that.

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The Top 6 Things You Can Do to Survive the Holidays When Single

I remember how excited I would be if I met someone who showed some real relationship potential in the months or even weeks leading up to the holiday season. Finally! This Christmas I might actually be a part of a relationship - a couple! I might actually have someone to show up with me for the office holiday party and family Christmas gathering! Someone to exchange romantic gifts with and to snuggle with in the cold nights; to kiss under the mistletoe.

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The REAL Reason He Hasn’t Called

I remember it like it was just yesterday. The conversation my single girlfriends and I would have over and over again. Whenever one of us had just gone on a first or second date, or had been in a slow moving relationship with the typical non-committal guy we were in denial about. The conversation always inevitably came around to “Why hasn’t he called?”

Why Do I Always Attract Crazy Men?
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Why Do I Always Attract Crazy Men?

Every woman is working with the same pool of men. Say there are four billion men on Planet Earth. This is the pool of men that you have to work with. In this pool, there are going to be gentlemen, pimps, players, hustlers, and psychos. But, it’s the same pool of men. It’s not like the crazy men are coming from outside this pool. The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you. You can either repel or invite these men into your life. The only reason you attract crazy men is because you talk to them.

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How NOT to Meet Mr. Right

This is the story of Mike, the fire fighter. And me. And our relationship. Now we all know there’s just something about a firefighter, right? The big strong hero, who lives to save people, and is coming to save us too. They’re special. And if they like us, then we’re really special. We’ve really been chosen. Or so we think. Or so I thought. After all, it was the beach. Where better for fate to bring him and me together. Sand, surf, sun and all of the endless romantic possibilities they represent.

Why Black Men Date Outside of Their Race:A Mathematical Breakdown
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Why Black Men Date Outside of Their Race:A Mathematical Breakdown

How To Get the man of your dreams.com has decided to tackle one of the toughest and most controversial subjects of our century, with a solution and explanation through mathematical and economic deductive reasoning. It is purely a mathematical equation. If you talk to 100 black women and get one decent one, and you talk with 100 white women and get twenty decent women, it just makes mathematical and economic sense to date the women with whom you would have spent the most amount of time and had the least financial burden.

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LIFE

When starting this I wondered if it was the right thing to do. Well if you are someone like me you have to get it all out. PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES!! So I wonder why men hold women to the highest level of mistakes. Could it be because there is something wrong with them? Could it be that maybe they have guilt and it's easy to blame the women instead of looking deep inside themselves? Well let me tell you this... DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID..... Be honest with who you are. Go for what you want. Forgive yourself.

All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed
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All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed

  All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed   The only way you will get this information out of a man is if you have seriously hurt his ego or made him extremely mad. Despite what one may think, a man will become uninterested for this very reason. He will never tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. How do you know you if a man likes your Vagina? How do you know he does not?

Your Want a Relationship.  But, are you Ready to Date?
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Your Want a Relationship. But, are you Ready to Date?

The simple pleasure of getting to know another human being can sometimes buckle under the weight of unrealistic expectations or the baggage of previous relationships. How do you know that you are ready to date? Even consider becoming a couple? Ask yourself these questions before you jump right in with your eyes wide shut:

Dr. Romance’s guide to dating safely:
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Dr. Romance’s guide to dating safely:

I have encountered so many people who have been disappointed, ripped off or worse when dating online, that I drew up some guidelines for keepin yourself safe. Dr. Romance’s guide to dating safely: * Be skeptical, not gullible. When you're meeting men online (it is not dating until it's face-to-face) you have no way of knowing who they are. There are documented cases of prisoners conning gullible women to send them money, marry them etc. online.

Every man you should avoid, and I've dated all of them.
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Every man you should avoid, and I've dated all of them.

When I got hitched at 18 after only having experienced one 'serious' relationship and a couple of casual time fillers, I truly believed that I would be one of the lucky few who would never have to 'get back out there' again. Needless to say when you marry the person you want to see rather than acknowledging who is really in front of you, a union so blind is bound to falter. And that it did; I became a divorcee and single parent at the ripe old age of 21.

5 Easy Flirt Moves No Man Can Ignore
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5 Easy Flirt Moves No Man Can Ignore

Sex-kitten flirting, like most things, takes practice. The more you do it, the better you get at it. Here are 5 ways to flirt that will get you results: 1. When he comes near you, look him in the eyes as you breath in slowly, saying, "Wow, do you ever smell good." Taking a slow breath in automatically softens the look in your eyes, making you look sultry. Giving eye contact makes you appear boldly confident; while the compliment will make his heart race with anticipation.

First Comes Love..., then comes Marriage Education?
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First Comes Love..., then comes Marriage Education?

S__ & M___ sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G, first come love..., then comes marriage. Any couple in a successful marriage will tell you that you will reap the benefits for how much effort, time, and investment you put into learning new skills to connect, communicate, and be intimate with one another. If you invest in your couplehood, then you keep the sexual energy, attraction, and devotion within your relationship. You not only fireproof what you have together, it gets better each year. It's also fool proof.

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What the F***?

That’s right, I said the “F” word…FIGHT!!! This misunderstood, undervalued and feared experience that people avoid and couples run from has got a bad rap. The possibility of “the fight” stirs up so much for people and yet, without it the passion wanes. The point that I want you to hear is that fighting is not bad, unhealthy & does not mean it’s beginning of the end.

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Are You a Good Listener?

We often think we are listening to someone, only to realize that we missed what they said. Either we were busy listening instead to the voices in our heads, or we were distracted by whatever was happening around us. When people ask how they can have better relationships with others, the first thing suggest is active listening.