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Should She Pursue Former Crush...20 Years Later?

Should She Pursue Former Crush...20 Years Later?

After two decades, is the spark still there? And does his patience indicate respect or disinterest?

Question: I have an unusual situation here...a guy I served with in the military back in my twenties (we are in our mid 40's now), found me on Facebook two years ago (I was married then).  He often sent me texts: jokes, political things, discussions about our kids (we both have teenaged boys, he's divorced).  We discovered that we had crushes on each other back then but were unaware of it.

Boy and girl holding hands
And they called it puppy love...

My 6-Year-Old Has A Boyfriend ... And I'm OK With It

Puppy love can be complicated—for kids and their parents.

For my daughter, who's obsessed with hearts and flowers and the idea of love, Valentines Day is a pretty big deal. As she finds her way through puppy love and first crushes, I find I'm learning right along with her.

5 Signs It Really Is Love at First Sight

5 Signs It Really Is Love at First Sight

Nearly 58% of Americans believe in Love at First Sight 50% say they have experienced it. Is it real?

“I knew it the minute I met him.” Claire Huxtable, married 35 years. “I knew I would marry her after the first date.”  Al Bundy, married 40 years. “I met him, I am sure this time, He is The One.” Carrie, 40, single with a string of exciting but broken relationships behind her.

accordion guy love song
Look at this creepy creeperson! He'll have you swallowing like 5 Plan B's in no time.

Love Bytes: The 10 Creepiest Love Songs Ever

Plus, Plan B may soon be available over the counter. No more awkward Planned Parenthood visits.

The creepiest song lyrics ever. Having babies too late may be even less safe than we thought. Do not start having sex with your neighbor if you want a relationship. Is your guy totally into someone else? Plan B may soon be available over-the-counter. Good-looking friends make you look... better. Hugs may not be as innocent as you think. France may ban prostitution.