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10 MORE Tips & Tricks For Making Foreplay Last Longer

We've already talked all about how important foreplay is to a healthy and fulfilling sex life. So important, in fact, that we're driving the point home with even more juicy ways to build up enough sexual tension to make the walls come crumbling down. YourTango Experts Kim Olver and Larry Michel share 10 more of their sexiest tricks and techniques for turning each other on even before you reach the bedroom.

5 Things We Secretly Want Our Men To Do For Us
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5 Things We Secretly Want Our Men To Do For Us

It’s been a known fact since time immemorial: women are truly hard to read. We could be very expressive, frank, and open one minute and be completely quiet, aloof, and secretive the next. From generations to generations, men have had difficulty in identifying the meaning of a word as simple as “okay” when a woman utters it. Is it “Okay, sure, you can enjoy the night with your friends?” Or does it mean “Okay, go out have fun but don’t expect me to talk to you for the next three weeks?” What it truly means we can’t really generally tell.

Why Romance Is Dependent On Surprise
Surprise! There are so many ways to keep your relationship from becoming ho-hum.
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Why Romance Benefits From An Element Of Surprise

Did you ever meet one of those couples that boast about how they still keep things lively in the bedroom, even after a million years of marriage? Did you ever believe them? If not, let YourTango Expert Esther Perel convince you that it may be time for a change of heart.

8 Serious Mistakes In Thinking That Lovers Make
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8 Serious Mistakes In Thinking That Lovers Make

These are the most frequent mistakes that couples make, often so quickly that they don't fully recognize them as mistakes, so please take time to see which apply to you and your lover: 1. Arbitrary inferences: Conclusions made without supporting evidence. Example: "He's late from work. He must be visiting one of his ex-girlfriends.

My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues - What Do I Do?
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My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues - What Do I Do?

Question I’m dating a woman who’s really great, except for the fact that she’s constantly questioning me whenever we spend any time apart. To give you an example, when I go out with friends, she has to know where I’m going, when I’m going to be back, and exactly who else will be there. One time, when I was out with friends, she even surprised me by just showing up with her own friends!

How to Communicate True Love
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How to Communicate True Love

Perhaps there is someone new in your life. You want to let them know you are falling in love with them but not sure how. Maybe you have been seeing someone for a little while now. You realize that you are ready to deepen the bond or take things to a new level but you don’t want to screw it up. Perhaps there is someone special who has been in your life for a very long time. You are seeking fresh new ways to demonstrate your love and affection, but are drawing a blank. When it comes to communicating love, a generic one size fits all approach simply will not do.

14 Signs That Show if a Midlife Crisis is Destroying your Marriag
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14 Signs That Show if a Midlife Crisis is Destroying your Marriag

The unfortunate thing is that those going through a midlife crisis will vehemently deny that it’s what’s happening to them. Or, on the other hand, they will laugh you off for even suggesting it. From experience, observation, and studying the subject, I’ve found at that they seem to all sing from the same song sheet. Someone suggested that it’s like a midlife crisis alien virus takes over their system. Some of the likely symptoms are presented below: Midlife Crisis Sign #1

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4 Genius Apps To Score You Brownie Points With Your Boyfriend

Sigh. If only mobile apps could help improve your relationship, bring your closer to your partner, improve your sex life and stave off fights. Wait ... they can! We road-tested four of the newest apps — one developed by K-Y Brand! — and found that technology can not only help you find love, but help you enhance it, too!

Solving the Secrets of Your Man
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Solving the Secrets of Your Man

I recently discovered the work on Alison Armstrong – who for 15 years has been honing her message on the important differences in men and women that manifest in the heterosexual marriage in typical and often frustrating ways.  Her wisdom is found in the freedom that comes when we understand each other instead of blame and accuse each other.  Last week I was sharing some of these ideas with a small group of grad therapy students.  One of the men who is newly married, lit up and said, “Oh my gosh, that happene