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Can't make it to paradise? Here's how to bring it to you and your partner.

How To Bring More Hawaii Into Your Relationship

A new study shows Hawaii is the best place to live. Here are 9 ways to get there with your partner.

For the fourth consecutive year, residents of Hawaii rank among the happiest and healthiest in the nation. See how to take your relationship to Hawaii —without actually going there.

14 Signs That Show if a Midlife Crisis is Destroying your Marriag

14 Signs That Show if a Midlife Crisis is Destroying your Marriag

Your Midlife Crisis is Destroying your Marriage?Check these likely symptoms.

The unfortunate thing is that those going through a midlife crisis will vehemently deny that it’s what’s happening to them. Or, on the other hand, they will laugh you off for even suggesting it. From experience, observation, and studying the subject, I’ve found at that they seem to all sing from the same song sheet. Someone suggested that it’s like a midlife crisis alien virus takes over their system. Some of the likely symptoms are presented below: Midlife Crisis Sign #1

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Vulnerability can bring you closer together.

5 Steps To Opening Up Emotionally In Your Relationship

Expressing your emotions in a relationship isn't always easy, but it can be profoundly rewarding.

Do you find it hard to let yourself be vulnerable? Fear of intimacy is the main reason people do not open up emotionally with another person. There are a range of emotions and behaviors that can enhance the intimacy, or deepening, of your relationship.

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Boyfriend? There's an app for that.

4 Genius Apps To Score You Brownie Points With Your Boyfriend

Eager to show him how much you care? Technology to the rescue.

Sigh. If only mobile apps could help improve your relationship, bring your closer to your partner, improve your sex life and stave off fights. Wait ... they can! We road-tested four of the newest apps — one developed by K-Y Brand! — and found that technology can not only help you find love, but help you enhance it, too!

Solving the Secrets of Your Man

Solving the Secrets of Your Man

What if you could understand the frustrating parts of your man and get him to be the lover you need?

I recently discovered the work on Alison Armstrong – who for 15 years has been honing her message on the important differences in men and women that manifest in the heterosexual marriage in typical and often frustrating ways.  Her wisdom is found in the freedom that comes when we understand each other instead of blame and accuse each other.  Last week I was sharing some of these ideas with a small group of grad therapy students.  One of the men who is newly married, lit up and said, “Oh my gosh, that happene

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Traveling together into the unknown.

The Biggest Risk I Ever Took For My Marriage

Without a safety net, I quit my job to spend more time with my husband — and travel the world.

I’m not a trust fund baby, nor do I have a sugar daddy. I just want to see the world with my husband, so I quit my job, packed my bags and left. My marriage has never been the same.

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Contrary to popular belief, romance doesn't have to die.

Study Says Romance Can Last In Long-Term Relationships

Who says the spark has to fade away over time?

Have you settled for companionship in your would-be romantic relationship? Companionship is when you exist in the same home but spend very little time together, and neither of you is particularly satisfied.

4 Relationship Attributes to Develop: Lessons from Advent

4 Relationship Attributes to Develop: Lessons from Advent

Advent traditionally involves 4 small words that can also enhance your relationship.

Advent is the season Christians observe leading up to Christmas.  During this season, Christians traditionally focus on hope, peace, joy and love.  These very same themes can also be important things to focus on in our relationships in order to enhance our relationship whether it is at the beginning early stage or is more mature.  This focus can occur during Advent or can be something that is worked on by a couple at any time.  For each of these ideas, here is two lessons you can take from Advent to understand the

4 Sugary Sweets & 4 Bah Humbugs of Gift Card Giving

4 Sugary Sweets & 4 Bah Humbugs of Gift Card Giving

Giving gift cards - Mistletoe Kiss or Miss?

Remember the last time you were carded? Stop. We mean gift-carded! Most people in this land of plastic have either given or received at least one gift card. The National Retail Federation reports that 6 of 10 consumers say “they’d like to receive gift cards this year.” The to-give-or-not-to-give debate rages on, but all of The 5 Money Personalities™ may benefit from buying gift cards for others.  The Flyer c

And Baby Makes Three

And Baby Makes Three

Relationship is hard work, every day. Adding children has the potential to make it twice as hard.

  I used to think that if something didn’t turn out right (cake batter or laundering a stained blouse, say) the way to apply a fix was to add something.  More flour to the batter.  An applique over the stain.  I’d like to say those solutions worked, but we both know better. So why do we seek to add a BIG COMPLICATION to an already-complicated situation?  I’m not talking returning a dog to the pound because he digs under the fence.  Or changing your mind about that four grand worth of furniture.