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Are you an introvert? You're in good company!
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Are you an introvert? You're in good company!

Are you an introvert? I have a recently been following the tweets  and posts of Susan Cain and I looked forward to the release of her book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking before the book came out.  I have long identified myself as an introvert, save for those few years in late adolescence and early adulthood when I did my best to shed those characteristics. …

How To Get That First Kiss
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How To Get That First Kiss

So there you are, the date is coming to a close, you're in the car or walking her back to her house from Muni. Heart is pounding. Sweat breaks out across your brow even though it's a characteristic 52 degrees in San Francisco. You've planned out the perfect kiss but are still nervous as hell as to whether she's going to be down and reciprocate. The moment comes, you close your eyes and against better judgement lean in...

7 Keys Women Need For Dating
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7 Keys Women Need For Dating

[Interview by Vitra Singh for Diva Gossip] Doing dating right can be a challenge for men and women who just want to meet “the right one.” Diving in haphazardly without stopping to think about what you are looking for, qualities that are essential, and how to bring up some tough talk can hurt more than help.

My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues - What Do I Do?
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My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues - What Do I Do?

Question I’m dating a woman who’s really great, except for the fact that she’s constantly questioning me whenever we spend any time apart. To give you an example, when I go out with friends, she has to know where I’m going, when I’m going to be back, and exactly who else will be there. One time, when I was out with friends, she even surprised me by just showing up with her own friends!

How Does Saying Yes Benefit Me In Dating?
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How Does Saying Yes Benefit Me In Dating?

Yes.   It is one of the first words we ever say and it only seems to get more difficult to say as time passes. In fact, as a child, we say "Yes" to pretty much anything. Yes to checking out the pool before we know how to swim, yes to sharing an ice cream cone with the dog, yes to chasing the Nerf ball (do they still make those?) into I-85. We are open to any possibility, and naturally possess what I like to call the “yes stance.”

Why General Petraeus Cheated [EXPERT]
Another one bites the dust.
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Why General Petraeus Cheated

Add CIA Director General David Petraeus' name to the list of people who have been caught cheating recently. So, what is it that people who cheat are after? Why would these successful, intelligent people risk their marriages, reputations and careers?

3 Golden Rules To Follow When Committing To A Therapist
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3 Golden Rules To Follow When Committing To A Therapist

Our relationships are probably the most important aspect of our life.  As a relationship expert, I tell people that I specialize in relationship to others and yourself. It's my belief that the two very much go together. Clearly, whether it's concerning yourself or others, there are times when things are difficult, confusing or complicated.  Fortunately, in today's world, there's a great deal of information that is available to folks. Wonderful sites such as this one, books, CDs, etc.

Choosing Cyberspace Over Hot Sex?
Which do you prefer?
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Choosing Cyberspace Over Hot Sex?

CBS New York's Jennifer McLogan reported recently that "[t]he hardest desires to resist seem to be social networking sites, not sexual relationships," adding, "While the urge for sex is stronger, people are more likely to give in to the desire [for] social media."