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Stop Fighting! 4 Steps To Lovingly Disengaging
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Stop Fighting! 4 Steps To Lovingly Disengaging

What does it mean to lovingly disengage from conflict? How do you keep your heart open and lovingly disengage when someone close to you is saying things about you that aren't true, or saying things about others that aren't true, or saying things about themselves or about life that aren't true? How do you lovingly disengage when someone close to you is blaming you, complaining, withdrawing from you, resisting you or attacking you?

Breaking The Conflict Pattern
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Breaking The Conflict Pattern

(A conversation during a coaching session) Me:       Tom, how are things going with Nancy? Tom:     Well…not that great actually. Me:       What do you mean? Last time we talked you were all excited about dating her. Tom:     I know. But things have changed. She’s blown me off.

4 simple steps to identify and deal with your triggers
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4 simple steps to identify and deal with your triggers

We all sometimes react to things that our partner says or does (or to what he or she fails to say or do!) in a way that appears - when we look back on it after a little while - as disproportionate to the situation: shouting, losing control, blaming, and sometimes even throwing things, etc... Although normal in all relationships, our emotional reactions benefit from being "monitored" and understood, so that we do not harm our relationship over time in a way that is beyond repair.

6 Fears that Prevent Us from Speaking Up
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6 Fears that Prevent Us from Speaking Up

How much do you value being seen and heard? Do you really want a truly successful relationship? How important is it to have impact on others? Then speak up! Of course, for some people, that’s easier said than done. You might prefer to sky dive without a parachute than tell another person what’s really on your mind. But it is possible to develop an assertiveness connected to head and heart that clears the way for honest, empowered living-without being rude to others.

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Are there intolerable problems in your relationship?
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4 Questions To Ask Yourself Before A Breakup Or Divorce

Ending a low quality relationship can be associated with considerable improvement in our wellbeing. There is a point at which it makes good sense to get out of a bad relationship. This even holds true for children and divorce: Ending a highly conflicted marriage can be good for children in time (a good thing to remember when you're wondering if you should "stay together for the kids").

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The Celtics cheerleaders. Image courtesy of SportsIllustrated.com.
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Weird News: The Celtics Lost, He Took It Out On His Girlfriend

The incident took place when the couple were in the victim's car after watching the Celtics lose Game 6 of their NBA conference final to the Miami Heat. The defendant, John McGuinness, was reportedly enraged after his girlfriend — whose name has not yet been released — received a text message from a male friend.

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When it comes to parenting, there is no one-size-fits-all solution.
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Is Attachment Parenting Bad For Moms?

When my daughter was born, I was determined to be a breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, cloth diapering, hippie mama. Nine months later, the only thing that'd stuck was the cloth diapers. I had just started my daughter on formula, she had been in the sling exactly five times and never once slept in her fancy little co-sleeper, which I returned to the store. And yes, I felt like a failure.

How Compatible Are You and Your Partner?
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How Compatible Are You and Your Partner?

Do you argue over money? Will Money Ruin Your Relationship? [EXPERT] Are you fighting over sex? Do you have different ideas about how much time you should spend together and apart? Do you squabble over extended family and friends? Is one of you daring and reckless, while the other wants to play things safe? Does one of you want to be right all the time? Does one of you want to always be in control? Do you disagree about the fun activities in your life?

How To Handle Conflict In Your Relationship [EXPERT]
Have you and your partner hit a brick wall?
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How To Handle Conflict In Your Relationship

Remember the day you gazed into the eyes of your prospective partner and truly grasped that their excitement about you matched your fascination with them? You saw your idealized self reflected back to you in their soft smiling eyes. You were hooked like a fish attracted to a shiny new lure that caters to its most vulnerable characteristics.

Can Fatty Foods Cause Couples To Fight More?
Could your hormones be out of control because of fatty food?
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Can Fatty Foods Cause Couples To Fight More?

Studies have been performed that suggest fatty meals could make fighting with your partner super-stressful. The Ohio State University is attempting to prove that foods rich in saturated fat will increase stress hormones and thusly affect our emotional responses. Shape Magazine has a few great tips on how not to let eating lead to fighting (unless, of course, it's a sexy food fight). I'd suggest being very complimentary of each others' cooking as a start.

9 Things People Say That Kill Relationships
There are phrases you should nix now -- before your relationship is over.
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9 Things People Say That Kill Relationships

Save breakup talk for when you truly want to end a relationship, not as a rhetorical weapon. Otherwise, you risk your match taking you up on the offer and leaving you crying over steak for one.