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3 Simple Steps To Being Your Best Self

3 Simple Steps To Being Your Best Self

Bring out the best in yourself to attract the kind of love that you want - here's how!

We hear it all the time: be your best self! But what does that really mean? How do we be our best selves? We may spend a small fortune on a new wardrobe of all of the latest trendy styles, buy a membership to the best fitness club, or get a sporty new car. But we still feel the same. We might have changed some things but we don’t feel any different. We’re still our same old selves. So why don’t we feel any different? Because that’s not what it’s about.

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Love your body?

12 More Ways To Love Your Body

... featuring advice from five YourTango Experts!

Here are 12 more of our experts' best tips for how you can begin to improve your relationship with your body right away!

How Halloween Costumes Can Spice Up Your Sex Life [EXPERT]
Who will you be for Halloween?

How Halloween Costumes Can Spice Up Your Sex Life

Does Halloween make you feel sexy? If it didn't before, it will now!

This time of year, many of us get excited about choosing a costume and wearing it. Why can this feel like such a confidence booster? And why do we still look forward to it so much?

How To Live Your Best Life After 50 [EXPERT]
Are you living your life to the fullest?

How To Live Your Best Life After 50

With age comes greater wisdom to lead a joyful life.

Just think, the best is yet to come! It's true, and I'm going to explain why. We've put in all the hard work, we've done our due diligence, we've gotten down and dirty; finally we get to enjoy the garden we've been tending for the first half of life.

How To Make A Confident First Impression [EXPERT]
Put your best foot forward.

How To Make A Confident First Impression

You only get 7 seconds, so try these 6 tips!

You know the saying: You never get a second chance to make a first impression. These words speak volumes and are absolutely true. Be it a business or social situation, we are judged by the way we look in a blink of an eye ... well, actually less than seven seconds, which is not much time at all, and certainly not enough time for our marvelous qualities to shine through.

16 Ways To Feel Sexy In 5 Minutes Or Less [EXPERT]
It only takes 2 minutes to put on some high heels!

16 Ways To Feel Sexy In 5 Minutes Or Less

... because feeling irresistible doesn't have to take all day!

Let's face it, sometimes you only have five minutes to go from super mom to super sexy. For those occasions when you only have a few moments to spare, follow our experts' advice for how you can feel utterly irresistible in under 300 seconds.

10 Ways To Screw Up A First Date ... Royally [EXPERT]
He's a catch ... just ask him.

10 Ways To Screw Up A First Date ... Royally

Get some fool-proof tips on how to have the worst first date ever!

'This has to be a joke,' you're probably telling yourself. 'Everything on this list would be so blatantly bad that no one would ever do this stuff.' Unfortunately, as every single person can tell you, it happens all the time.

12 Ways To Build Confidence In Your Relationship [EXPERT]
How confident in your relationship are you?

12 Ways To Build Confidence In Your Relationship

Feeling a little insecure? Learn how to strengthen your union.

Even the most rock-solid couples feel insecure about their relationships sometimes. So, how do you build confidence in your relationship? We asked our experts to weigh in with their best suggestions, and here's what they had to say.

4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates [EXPERT]
What does your body language say about you?

4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates

Discover what your body language says about you.

The way that a person walks, talks and moves can speak volumes to their character and ultimately be a deciding factor in whether or not you choose to approach them. Is your body language sending the right message to your potential suitors?