Ms. Christian Grey? Study Tells Women To Take Charge During Sex
Channel your inner Christian Grey for once, not your "inner Goddess."
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Ms. Christian Grey? Study Tells Women To Take Charge During Sex

Despite our fantasies of Don Draper or Christian Grey, it's most likely a Michael Cera type who will be able to satisfy us the most sexually. A new Yale University study published in the Sex Roles journal (yes, that exists) found that men who believe they need to be dominant during playtime are less comfortable asking women about their sexual needs.

Dating Jitters? 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Confidence
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Dating Jitters? 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Confidence

We've all been there, those nervous hours (and for some of us that are more anxiety prone, days) before a date with a guy you either just met or recently started dating that you're just so, well, into. You want to make a good impression and you start obsessing about everything from your hair, to what on earth you're going to wear, to those extra few pounds that you want to lose so badly. It's enough to drive a beautiful single girl crazy, and for most of us that's exactly what it does.

How To Live Your Best Life After 50 [EXPERT]
Are you living your life to the fullest?
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How To Live Your Best Life After 50

Just think, the best is yet to come! It's true, and I'm going to explain why. We've put in all the hard work, we've done our due diligence, we've gotten down and dirty; finally we get to enjoy the garden we've been tending for the first half of life.

Why I Lost Respect For (& My Crush On) Rupert Everett [EXPERT]
"There's nothing worse than being raised by two gay dads." —Rupert Everett
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Why I Lost Respect For (& My Crush On) Rupert Everett

Since the story broke on the 'Huffington Post' about Everett's statement ("There's nothing worse than being raised by two gay dads"), I've seen numerous editorials, articles and spoofs referring to the once luscious piece of man meat as a vile hypocrite. I want to personally thank Rupie for bringing to light one of the stalwart behaviors of the gay community — internalized homophobia.

Dating With Confidence
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Dating With Confidence

What is confidence?  Men and women of all ages throw out this word time and time again as something they are looking for in a mate and is the number one element both men and women find attractive in one another.    People desire for one another to be comfortable in their own skin, sexy and solid in knowing who they are.   It could look like something as simple as putting on a pair of heels to gain a sexy swagger, smiling at a man in a coffee shop to invite conversation or being at ease and enjoying a date.  When you feel confident, you attract love and

Divorced? How To Manage Your Household With One Income [EXPERT]
Eating in and being frugal goes a long way.
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Divorced? How To Manage Your Household With One Income

What gives me the right to teach you about household budgeting? Well, I've been there and done that. And as the saying goes: "I've got the T-shirt". After 18 years of marriage, it was over. Why it was over doesn't matter. Whose fault it was doesn't matter. That was part of my "moving on."

Are you counting other people’s blessings instead of your own?
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Are you counting other people’s blessings instead of your own?

‘If we all put our problems into a hat and then picked out of it someone else’s problems, we’d all ask for our own back.’ In this Facebook/Twitter/Social Media world that we live in, it’s easy to get caught up in the game of “compare and despair”. You know what I mean? You see your “friends” (some of them you’ve never even met in person! posting pictures of their amazing vacations)Envy Are you counting other people’s blessings instead of your own?

How Having Faith Can Help You Find True Love [EXPERT]
Got faith?
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How Having Faith Can Help You Find True Love

After a lifetime of working on myself, I have made a profound discovery. I have become overly self-sufficient. I trust and believe in myself, but there is something bigger, better and more delicious available and sometimes, my need to be overly independent can compromise that. I am suggesting that there is more to life than trusting ourselves.

Are You in the Midst of Dramatic Uncertainty?
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Are You in the Midst of Dramatic Uncertainty?

Uncertainty. It's like a black hole that can swallow you alive. It's probably one of the most prominent challenges that I help my coaching clients deal with on a regular basis. It causes more worry, anxiety, and self-doubt than any other concern I have come across. It creates frustration and paralysis. It can take someone from bold and confident to neurotic and scared. I've seen it over and over and while the circumstances are always unique, the symptoms are the same:

Are You Obsessed With Celebrities?
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Are You Obsessed With Celebrities?

Dear Dr. Romance: Do I have an unhealthy celebrity obsession? I really need answers and help! I feel this is still unresolved? Does anyone else have an obsession with a particular celebrity to the degree that you wanna look, act, talk, dress and live like them. I do, I wanna look like her in photos if I dont I'm upset, I live like her as in if she does something then I do it, if she does her hair in a certain way I copy it that's how obsessed I am with looking like her.

12 Easy Ways To Feel Better Instantly
Improving your individual mental health can also do wonders for your relationships.
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12 Easy Ways To Feel Better Instantly

We all feel a little crazy sometimes (for me, "sometimes" means at least three times a day), and while we're big proponents of therapy and other structured forms of mental health support, there are times when limited funds or busy schedules make it tough to get professional help.

Empowered By You panties
Empowered By You panties
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Wear That Sexy Thong For YOU, Not For Him

Does being on top during a hot sack session with your boyfriend empower you? Well, there has to be something in your life that makes you feel confident and invincible, and that's what a new panty line, called Empowered By You, is asking you to celebrate.

4 Tips To Make The Most Of An 'Aha' Moment [EXPERT]
Oprah Winfrey coined the term "aha moment" on her ABC daytime talk show.
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4 Tips To Make The Most Of An 'Aha' Moment

We've all had aha moments ... that sudden thrill of something you hadn't understood before, the glimpse of a possibility, that moment when you finally "get it." Merriam-Webster recently added the term to its famous dictionary, and defines it as: a moment of sudden realization, inspiration, insight, recognition, or comprehension. Here are four things you should do with an aha moment:

3 Surprising Myths About Men
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3 Surprising Myths About Men

It’s easy to misinterpret what men really want. Whether it be what they want from a woman, or from a relationship, the movies, media and our girlfriends give us mixed message that leave Dignity Daters confused, frustrated and possibly even making tragic dating mistakes that leave them stuck in their romantic rut. Today we’ll dispel some common myths in the “Dating with Dignity Guide to What Men Really Want: Three Myths and Three Truths to Stop Wondering Today!”

The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive [VIDEO]
The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive
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The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive

Are you worried that your man doesn't find you attractive anymore? Do you find yourself looking for different ways to turn him on like you used to? In this video, Relationship Coach and YourTango Expert LiYana Silver dishes the secret of what men are most attracted to in a woman. Contrary to popular belief, physical attraction isn't the only aspect that goes into keeping his attention.