selfishness frustration and ambiguity
Can long distance really work?
Love is just a game that never last. We can play by the rules or make up the rules as we go along. Its a game that can't really be won until you can change the rules or redifine what winning actually is.
Falling In-Love with my Husband....
Why I hate fashion magazines and sites.
Every silver lining has a cloud
He doesn't care who I would marry if he died. As he points out, he would be dead. I, on the other hand, have told him that if I die first, he should be miserable for a year, and then he can re-marry. I have also instructed him not to choose anyone too different from me - if he did, it would mean he doesn't love me. I actually spend time getting twisted up over questions like this. And why does he like Samantha and Charlotte, for heaven's sake? What does that mean? He doesn't hear anything unless he's listening - and he can't listen and do something else at the same time. I walk out of a restaurant and ask, "Could you believe the terrible things that guy said to his girlfriend? How can they talk about things like that in public?" My husband has no idea what I'm talking about since he has been, quite rightly, paying attention to what I said. (I can still recite back what he said, probably better than he can.)
a great quote from Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's Dating Secrets of the Ten Commandments