Do you have an opinion on love, dating, sex and relationships? Come tell us about it on YourTango's community blog.
Why the men decide to make us crazy

Why the men decide to make us crazy

Guys can really get into your skin- Let me tell you one of my stories and what i learned from it. I was dating the CEO of my company for about 7 months. Everything was fine... he was older, but he had money so all was peachy. But then a new guy joined the company, god was he beautiful, i fell in love and the rest was history. Here's a few things i did wrong in the beginning: #1- I wasn't honest with my current boyfriend and lied even if the new guy texted me. (men arn't stupid ladies) #2- I wasn't honest with the new boy becuase and told him i was single because i didn't want him to think diffrently of me becuase of who i was with... i didn't want him thinking i was a gold digger.

Dear Jane,

Dear Jane,

Perhaps the best way to find a romantic partner would be, in my opinion, meeting, being friends, THEN falling in love. All the real relationships I've had in my life did NOT result from dating, but actually from a series of very interesting events. Some people call it luck, coincidence, destiny, or fate. I just call it providential. Dating is fine when it's with someone you actually feel a connection with and want to invest the time and energy into seeing how things will go. Coming upon that someone is RARE, for me. The problem is that most people search, and then become too engrossed in the search which makes them lose themselves. This is when desperation, feelings of insecurity, sadness, etc turn them into idiots. Yes, the kind that act retarded and will date anyone. People are crazily into MARRIAGE, R'SHIPS, and LOVE. The reasons for this are both inner and outer influences. Inner: Insecurity over who you are thus requiring a 'significant'

Flirting and Wordplay

Flirting and Wordplay

Text messaging is totally godsend. With this new innovation, you can definitely communicate with the women you've been eying for the longest time in just a press of a button. There's no pressure, no demands and is the most accessible way to flirt nowadays. Having the gadget and your girl's number are not enough.

TOUGH LOVE

TOUGH LOVE

MY RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES ME WHEN HE IS ANGR

Gettin' Back My Groove

Gettin' Back My Groove

Last year, love for me was a series of spectacular hits that became grossly off-target misses. Every attempt I made at relationship was tossed into the crapper long before I even had a chance to lift the lid. Though it’s been swell to have an “active” romantic life, the yo-yo effect of gaining and losing love every couple of months began to take its toll. When the crush I’ve been nursing since this past February recently started to tank, it brought my mojo down with it. The first viable option I’d had in ages, this crush was the last straw. There was only one thing to do: play Stella and get my groove back.