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NSA, FWB, or just BJ's....

NSA, FWB, or just BJ's....

Why do most men on date sites think you are on there for no strings attached sex, friends with benefits, or to try to get a glorified blow job? I am so sick of them coming on like that's all you are there for or that's all you are looking for. Doesn't anyone want a good old fashioned relationship anymore? Sure there's a chance you'll get hurt , but what if you don't. What if you give that person a try and you find out that he/she is the one for you. Life is way too short for games. I don't know about any of you, but I would love to have someone to share my life with, grow older with, and love them unconditionally. So guys, give it a rest , don't look women up just for sex unless it's a sex site you are on....not the date sites!

Dealing with widowed life w/ humor

My life at 58, a widow of 11 years, a mother of two, a full-time worker for the first time in ages, all my crazy hobbies and what I do for fun, and also how frustrating this whole thing can be at times!

Bootie shorts leather halter granny

Bootie shorts leather halter granny

Thats me...I guess im not an adverage grandma. I do dress like that, ride horses and harleys ever since i can remember//I have several tattoos and would like to have more .Been through more hell than any person has a right to. I guess im pretty much a survivor. Id like to someday take my story and help people. Ive burried 4 husbands 3 boyfriends and trying to do my damnest to hold on to this new marriage, and about to give up. My poor heart has been stompped in more ways than you could imanage. And in holding a smile dont let it confuse you if i didnt id be looney. My life has surely not been boring.Some day i will write a book no one will believe it, some might even get a good laugh. I do write poems and have been published. Ill write one here later. Of corse they arent your "normal" type poetry either.Everything from death, life, harleys,club brothers, horses,sex, men and everything in between. Some make you laugh some will make you cry. Its my life on paper and sometime soon j will share them here. I tell most people i can either be your best friend or your worst nightmare its their choice takes as much effort to do either. I think i like animals better seems they have better manners most times...LOL Hope i havent bored the hell outa ya..Ive rattled on enough for now...See ya