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Trying to b me after us

Trying to b me after us

I have just entered into the last of a million breakups ( I so hope that statement is true) Gave someone so much control that I am kinda by myself now. Not that I dont have friends I do they like myself just pray that this is the last time. We were together for six years and we have broken up more than either one of us can count. Have finally come to the conclusion that what we have is lust much more than love. Where to go from here is the question. just speaking for myself seeing someone else is the last thing I want rite now. Tried it once and they just got hurt. I really believed we were over though and we ran into each other and oh well should I say more. I believe we love each other but we are both tired of this. It is kind of a joke to people that know and care for both of us. I know I have to rejoin the rest of the world and Im not quite sure how to go about it. Havent thought for myself in a long time. As for my friends and family they care but they are sick of it to for good reason. kinda like AA I assume. just one day at a time.

Trying to b me after us

Trying to b me after us

I have just entered into the last of a million breakups ( I so hope that statement is true) Gave someone so much control that I am kinda by myself now. Not that I dont have friends I do they like myself just pray that this is the last time. We were together for six years and we have broken up more than either one of us can count. Have finally come to the conclusion that what we have is lust much more than love. Where to go from here is the question. just speaking for myself seeing someone else is the last thing I want rite now. Tried it once and they just got hurt. I really believed we were over though and we ran into each other and oh well should I say more. I believe we love each other but we are both tired of this. It is kind of a joke to people that know and care for both of us. I know I have to rejoin the rest of the world and Im not quite sure how to go about it. Havent thought for myself in a long time. As for my friends and family they care but they are sick of it to for good reason. kinda like AA I assume. just one day at a time.

Still Running Away

This is the part where I confess to all of you what most people in my life have no idea about.  I think what I have done is sneaky and dishonest.  It may make me a horrible person.  That didn't stop me from doing it.  I got married at 20 years old.  The pudgy, plain 20 year old who was so excited to have someone look at her that she didn't take the time to see if the man was right for her.  We had a whirlwind courtship and were married in a wedding chapel 7 months later with six people in attendance.  Things turned ugly very quickly.  Charlie (not his real name) had a volatile temper and was more often than not without a job.  We were always struggling financially and I would shrink from his violent temper.  It eventually escalated to physical abuse.  He once knocked me to the ground and wrestled me against it to keep me from going to church.  He alienated me from my family, forbidding me to go and see my mother.  I tried

Is three a crowd?

Is three a crowd?

As a happy and very horny husband, I am very open to trying new things with my wife. About the only thing I won't do is watch her with another man. Would you or have you exposed your significant other purposely to sex with a 2nd person involved?

Find me at these places

Find me at these places

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What Now?

What Now?

1st time "blogger" so I may sound like I'm rambling...sorry. Here goes... I'm a 47 yr old male and I've been divorced for about 3 months now, after a 9 month separation. Up till the day that changed my life forever, I thought we had a strong marriage, strong family with two kids and the "not perfect" life, but a good life. In fact after talking with every person I knew and alot of people my ex knew, including her family, it was unanimous that everyone thought we had a strong marriage and couldn't believe what she was doing, except for my ex that is! 15 years (almost to the day) down the dray. Now life the way it is pretty much sucks. We have a business together, still have a house that we can't sell due to economy. With our 2 kids heavy into sports and the man my ex seems to show interest in being a coach for one of our kids, I don't seem to be able to get a break from having it shoved into my face and my my nose rubbed in "it" almost on a daily basis. If not for my kids, I'd pack it up and move away to give myself some room to start growing away from her. 2 problems: (1) I love my kids and can't stand the thought of being away from them. (2) I still love my ex (not sure why cause she destroyed everything I loved) but I've never stopped.(after all, it was she that "dumped" on our life, and divorce is nothing more than a legality, not and end to emotional connections). Don't know what to do, but feel something needs to change or I'm going to go nuts! Are there any good books or resources that a "guy" can search out? Most of what I see out here is geared toward women. Good info, but just doesn't seem to have same perspective.??

i think im going to start a blog..

all names changed, of course. [: however, i have an early morning as i am going on a fabulous escape from reality and i havent even begun to pack..procrastination has [and always will be] my strong point. [:

Marriage Advice for Guys

Marriage Advice for Guys

I have been enjoying reading an undeniably biased book about marriage, "It's (Mostly) His Fault:  for women who are fed up and the men who love them," by Robert Mark Alter.  It is completely unfair to the guys, but it is so much fun to read. In this book, (almost) everything is the guy's fault.  He is the one who has to change to improve the marriage.  It's like reading "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" turned inside-out.