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The List of Off-Limits Men

The List of Off-Limits Men

Not so long ago, the most resolute act you could carry out in order to assert your commitment to ending a bad relationship was to throw the guy out and change the locks.  If you were really brazen, you could toss his clothes into the mulberry bush beneath your window.  The truly disturbed might sleep with his best friend or pour sugar into the gas tank of his souped-up Ford Escort.  In this modern age, the most threatening, and perhaps only way to put a period at the end of a liaison headed toward Splitsville is one simple, though potent act: erase the guy’s number from your cell phone.  

Trying to b me after us

Trying to b me after us

I have just entered into the last of a million breakups ( I so hope that statement is true) Gave someone so much control that I am kinda by myself now. Not that I dont have friends I do they like myself just pray that this is the last time. We were together for six years and we have broken up more than either one of us can count. Have finally come to the conclusion that what we have is lust much more than love. Where to go from here is the question. just speaking for myself seeing someone else is the last thing I want rite now. Tried it once and they just got hurt. I really believed we were over though and we ran into each other and oh well should I say more. I believe we love each other but we are both tired of this. It is kind of a joke to people that know and care for both of us. I know I have to rejoin the rest of the world and Im not quite sure how to go about it. Havent thought for myself in a long time. As for my friends and family they care but they are sick of it to for good reason. kinda like AA I assume. just one day at a time.

Trying to b me after us

Trying to b me after us

I have just entered into the last of a million breakups ( I so hope that statement is true) Gave someone so much control that I am kinda by myself now. Not that I dont have friends I do they like myself just pray that this is the last time. We were together for six years and we have broken up more than either one of us can count. Have finally come to the conclusion that what we have is lust much more than love. Where to go from here is the question. just speaking for myself seeing someone else is the last thing I want rite now. Tried it once and they just got hurt. I really believed we were over though and we ran into each other and oh well should I say more. I believe we love each other but we are both tired of this. It is kind of a joke to people that know and care for both of us. I know I have to rejoin the rest of the world and Im not quite sure how to go about it. Havent thought for myself in a long time. As for my friends and family they care but they are sick of it to for good reason. kinda like AA I assume. just one day at a time.

Still Running Away

This is the part where I confess to all of you what most people in my life have no idea about.  I think what I have done is sneaky and dishonest.  It may make me a horrible person.  That didn't stop me from doing it.  I got married at 20 years old.  The pudgy, plain 20 year old who was so excited to have someone look at her that she didn't take the time to see if the man was right for her.  We had a whirlwind courtship and were married in a wedding chapel 7 months later with six people in attendance.  Things turned ugly very quickly.  Charlie (not his real name) had a volatile temper and was more often than not without a job.  We were always struggling financially and I would shrink from his violent temper.  It eventually escalated to physical abuse.  He once knocked me to the ground and wrestled me against it to keep me from going to church.  He alienated me from my family, forbidding me to go and see my mother.  I tried

Is three a crowd?

Is three a crowd?

As a happy and very horny husband, I am very open to trying new things with my wife. About the only thing I won't do is watch her with another man. Would you or have you exposed your significant other purposely to sex with a 2nd person involved?

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