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The Dumbfounded Cult of Orgasm

Bare some physiological dysfunctions, I believe that what makes people struggle to have an enjoyable sexual life are their misconceptions, rather than ‘technical’ issues. Among them is this idea that the finality of having sex is systematically to reach an orgasm. ‘How could that be considered as a misconception??’ I hear you ask, your eyebrows rising. Yeah, it is a deep one.

Comment of the Day 08/03/09

Comment of the Day 08/03/09

The great hair debate! It's on. I met my DH when I had super short hair. I grew it long for him (yeah, yeah, I know, but I was only 20 at the time). Now it's long and I love it. But I mostly love it because I grew up being told that I could only have short hair because I looked "terrible" with long hair.  From being on both sides of the fence I can see how the seemingly superficial issue might ignite some discussion. I love what LateBloomer had to say on the topic so much that she is the commenter of the day! Thanks, lady! I have a new litmus test for men now... if he is not attracted to me because my hair is short and he can't see beyond it to my heart and soul and mind............ buh bye. Read more of her comment here.

Cheating Keeps Us Together

Cheating Keeps Us Together

Mathias was a German I dated in ’07 while he was on a break with his girlfriend.  I didn’t find out I’d been in break territory until a week ago, when I ran into Mathias and he told me he’d gotten back together with his fräulein for the fourth time in their ten year relationship.  Apparently, I was one of several women he’d strayed with.  Seemed his girlfriend occasionally drifted, too.    But Mathias didn’t see these infidelities as evidence he was either a) in the wrong relationship or b) a no-g

Stressed

Stressed

I'm going crazy!! The kids are out control thanks to him. Now I have to deal with this crazy mess everyday. I have 6 kids total. Which their ages are 12, 9, 5, 1 1/2, and 5 month old twins.While he work or every chance he get he hangs out the guys. I don't do nothing but take care of the 24/ 7. I am begining not want to be married anymore. It's no different then when I was single. I had enough,I'm tired!!!!!!!