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How do you deal with being alone?

How do you deal with being alone?

I sit and think too much during my down time and drive myself nuts for no reason at all. I put too much pressure on myself because of my not being patient. I'm really working on it each day and hoping that my growth in this area will pay off should my relationship resume in the future.

My Secret Jon Gosselin Fantasy

My Secret Jon Gosselin Fantasy

I have a perverse fantasy about Jon Gosselin.  It all starts when Kate decides to go for joint custody.  With all the benefits provided by the T.V. station, it should be easy to share child care.  Kate will live with the kids half the week and then she'll move into whatever bachelor pad Jon has acquired and he'll live with the kids. The first week Jon brings along his new girlfriend.  She wakes up to the work involved in raising eight kids and runs screaming for the hills.  Jon tries to keep up with his kids and fails miserably.  The five year old calls him mean when he tells her to be quiet and go to bed already - this makes the tabloid headlines.  He calls other girlfriends, but they have seen what's happening on T.V. and are not answering their phone.  By the end of the third day, Jon is curled up in a fetal position while the children run amok.

Exiting a One Night Stand

One-night stands can be tricky to walk away from, especially the bad ones.  When your hook-up lays there in his or her afterglow talking about how awesome it was, and you're there thinking 'Get me out of here,' extricating yourself from this potentially awkward situation is tough. You don't want to seem rude, but when the beer goggles are wearing off and that lover's breath begins to sour, all you want is your own bed. One-night stands are an etiquette minefield, but you can exit the situation with class.

The Museum of Sex

Lila here~ I spent the weekend in NYC with a great friend. It began with the Museum of Sex at 233 Fifth Ave (at 27th St). The ground floor was all about animals and sexuality. I learned so many fun and interesting (and some slightly disturbing) things, I wanted to share a few with you. I’ll start with the disturbing thing; let’s just get that out of the way.

Discouraged

Discouraged

HATE having to live with my ex, he is soo negative, he portrays one face to the world, at home in his enviorment, he;s an ASS!!!