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My First Time

Haha! I didn't mean my first time having sex! This is my first time writing a blog on this website...and really only the second time I ever wrote a blog. I'd like to get started from the beginning...of my love life!

Orgasm

Orgasm

I am 40 years old and don't think I have ever had an orgasm. If so, it wan't the minding blowing experience other women talk about. What could be wrong with me??

The love of my life broke my heart

The love of my life broke my heart

and now we are working on finding our way back to one another again. Part of that is exploring menage a trois or swinging. He has wanted this always in our marriage and I was not open to it. And, now I am exploring this possibility, but struggling with sexual excitedness and more traditional feelings of commitment. But, I think I want to go to this place with him bc I realize how much I love him and I want to explore his sexual desires with him. And, oddly I find that the idea of having another woman in our bed makes me really excited as well. I never thought that I would feel that way, so it comes as a huge surprise to me. Any comments from others would be welcome.

On feeling nothing....

On feeling nothing....

Ever wonder how being a good parent helps your child later in life? Probe the mind of Symian (if you can get in) and see what happens when your broken child becomes a damaged woman...

A Night of Lovers' Past

A Night of Lovers' Past

Last night after sitting miserably bored out of my mind, I got online and was soon attacked by what seemed every guy that I had feelings for in the past year. My boyfriend, Ben, started texting me while two of my ex's that I'm still friends with started chatting it up on aim. This I could handle, but then my best friend, Cock Block who earned his nickname by calling me at the worse possible times, called to tell me his drama about one of his close friends wanting to shag him even though he's a married man. This always seemed to be a constant problem for Cock Block and several friends at school classified him as a man whore despite his wife and 2 year old daughter. He goes through girls faster than I go through hair styles and I'm always changing it up. I love him dearly, but I've never felt anything more than friendship towards Cock Block.

Brainwashing to the extreme!

I have a step son who's mom is brain washing him. She is feeding him lies about my husband and I and I'm afraid it will effect my other children when he comes to visit our home. I'm also afraid he will do something to our home when we are asleep or if we don't watch him like a hawk. We are in the process of moving and will then get a lawyer to take her to court, but in the mean time we have tried talking to him about the allegations said about us and still feel that he believes his mother. Any advice on how to deal with a child that is being put throuhg something like this? Also, we never say anything bad about his mother or any other family memebers because we don't like drama and dont' want to mess him up and make him feel like he is at fault.