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When You Got Him& How Long...

When You Got Him& How Long...

When you got the "one"-how long should you wait until he pops the question? 4 months.6 months, or what? Everything is going great,you are a couple,trust is secure,love-DEFINITELY,living together is content,but there's some talk about future-together,but no ring,no question,no wedding? Should ya, implant some subconscious memo while he is sleeping(LOL)???What's next when you don't know "how" or "what to do "--to make your guy MAKE the NEXT MOVE!!!without having him run for the hills!?

When You Got Him& How Long...

When You Got Him& How Long...

When you got the "one"-how long should you wait until he pops the question? 4 months.6 months, or what? Everything is going great,you are a couple,trust is secure,love-DEFINITELY,living together is content,but there's some talk about future-together,but no ring,no question,no wedding? Should ya, implant some subconscious memo while he is sleeping(LOL)???What's next when you don't know "how" or "what to do "--to make your guy MAKE the NEXT MOVE!!!without having him run for the hills!?

What she REALLY means!

What she REALLY means!

I write this brief piece to ensure the longevity and survival of the male gender. If you can figure out the difference between what she says and what she really wants to say, you can SAVE YOURSELF! What She Says: I like you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.What She Means: I am -0.00024% attracted to you. In fact, I actually thought you were gay when you decided to do everything I want and go shopping with me. Your friend is hot though, can you hook a sister up?! What She Says: Do we really have to go to that bar tonight?What She Means: I don't wanna go hang out with you and your Dbag friends at the bar again. If I do, I will psychologically torture you and withhold sex from you indefinitely until you get the point. What She Says: Does my butt look big in this?What She Means: You have been so into other people's butts lately (no pun intended). Can you look at mine for a second? Only say something nice or I'll put this fork through your eye, I've been practicing.

Call me crazy

Call me crazy but I believe it is completely possible to fall in love and marry your first boyfriend/girlfriend.  I may be young and naive but why couldn't it work?  I'll be the first to say that I'm a very picky person when choosing a mate.  That is part of the reason that I choose to not date until my early twenties.  Why should I waste my time with guys whom I knew it wouldn't work out with.  That all changed when I met Andrew.