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When Did Women Start Accepting Less

When Did Women Start Accepting Less

Name: Calypso | Location: NYC ,  |Question: Moxie,  I met "Bob" at the end of the summer. At first we hungout as friends. He'd invite me to happy hour w/ his friends and I'd do the same. One night while out and drinking we shared our first kiss. I went home with him that evening but nothing happened. He gave me pajamas and we shared the same bed but that was it. We didnt have sex.   We hungout a few more times after that.  The last time we hungout turned from simple happy hour drinks to 2 days in his apt - at the end of the night he asked me to come home with him (we both called off work and stayed glued on his sofa watching tv, eating food and making out from thurs night until sat morning BUT no sex again).  Since those 2 days we've texted some, Facebook'ed some but that is it.  I've invited him out a couple of times but he couldn't come (friends in town and sick). He texted me last week to see if I was hanging out but I wasn't.  I'm really

Good Things Come in Small Packages?

Good Things Come in Small Packages?

My new man is wickedly smart, stunning and sincere. The problem is our relationship is developing on an emotional, spiritual and intellectual level but not in the bedroom. I know it is because he has an unusually small penis and have done everything I can to convince him that this does not bother me. What can I say other than I am head over heels. Please tell me I am not crazy and how I can make him trust me enough to take it all the way. SingleEdition.com Sex and Intimacy Expert Cathy Beaton's Answer:This situation must be very frustrating for you.

My Life as a (Pretend) Stripper

My Life as a (Pretend) Stripper

I didn’t want to be a stripper. Really, I have no idea what I wanted from the exotic dance class I’d enrolled in at an adult education center.  I didn’t know whether the course catalog’s promise to help “create a full repertoire of floor-routine and chair moves you can use in enticing performances” was an achievable or even worthwhile goal.  But there I was in a leotard and stilettos, undulating my hips against an inert and perfectly innocent chair. The first order of business on day one was to pick our stripper names.  The gaggle of married lady friends in matching pink leotards seemed to be in a geographical mood, seeing as how they chose names like Savannah, Sierra and Asia.  The mousy woman recently dumped by her boyfriend chose Sexy Sadie because it was her ex’s favorite Beatles song.  The pretty but uptight Indian woman apparently didn’t grasp the smutty aspect of the renaming process because she replaced her