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Trust

Trust

i've been with my now fiance for 3yrs. engaged for a year in a half. Iam not ready for marriage because i cannot trust him at all, at the time i accepted the engagement ring we were fine. we have a babyboy that just turned one i have a daughter he has been racing since she was 1 and he has two other kids. I noticed a few numbers of different girls in his phonebook and seen phone calls or text at random times one of these girls was a gogo dancer were he use to go. every girl i found out about i had confronted them, they were defensive but they will also tell me to leave him that he is not worth it, he has stop this for while but everytime he goes out on the weekend i be so panic jealous and uncontrollable he asked a few times for us to leave each other. i cant trust him no matter what, he is a DJ very popular and girls be on him like white is on rice. Its getting to a point that he is getting tired of me always fighting and calling him 50 times while he is out with his boys. I never ever cheated on him but sometimes i want to because i think he is cheating but i do not have proof. And trust me i be on his phone every single day checking it. He calls me a good detective, because i get him caught that very first day he even tries anything. I am almost like a stalker and he made me this way. ITS JUST SO SAD AT TIMES. im not making him happy because of my jealousy and he hurts me the way he talks to me. other than this we do have a great sex life. its just complicated.......

valleriegarciaatymail.com

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Engagement

Engagement

I love my man, Chris, more deeply and truly than I have ever loved anyone before. As cliche as that may sound, it is the truth. He makes me smile and laugh no matter how angry I am. Even when it's him that is making my blood boil. How does he do that? He is in my heart. That's how. (Insert obnoxiously long "aw" here.) I feel drawn to this man like a moth to flame, Iccharus to the sun, or birds to the South in Winter. It is only natural for me to love him. His patience with me knows few limitations. When no one else can bear to be around me due to my mood swings or hormones, he still has my back. If I am upset for a "stupid girl reason" (my term, not his), he doesn't judge me. Rather, he waits patiently for the mood to pass and my fun-loving, goofy little psycho self to come back out to play. His love is pure, like spring water. Cool and refreshing. He is my fountain of youth, because we almost always have fun together. Chris is the one I want to marry. He knows this. I remind him a little too often, sometimes, but I am having trouble waiting for it to be real. I have been engaged 5 times: Wayne in 1997 (verbal, no ring, broke up before he proposed), Roy in 2000 (broke up shortly after starting wedding planning), Kevin (verbal, ring was bought, decided to be friends before he proposed and we are still very close), Jacob in April of 2004 (married 26 months, divorced bitterly), Sam in November of 2007 (he broke up with me 10 days before the wedding). So, damaged and in love with love as I am, my patience grows weak....

Vampires

I would like to start a group in NE Phila to meet up each month. If you are interested and would also like to help..Please let me know..

Couple Envy?

Couple Envy?

I am single by choice and enjoying the single lifestyle, but sometimes I when I am shopping and see couples I feel as though I am missing out on something great. How can I overcome those moments of weakness? SingleEdition.com  Lifestyle Expert Sherri Langburt's Answer: It sounds as though you have made a conscious lifestyle decision, one which you are enjoying for the most part and which is a great place to be. However, if you know specifically when and where those alone moments become painful, you can put preventative measures in place to avoid them. Try bringing a friend or relative along with you on shopping outings, or plan your shopping for off-hours, such as during a lunch break rather than on weekends.

Having The Tough Talks With Men

Having The Tough Talks With Men

I think there are a few difficult conversations that women normally initiate. Men, for the most part, will sit back and wait for a woman to bring these topics up. They're all for anything that does not disrupt that status quo. So, I thought we'd break down some of the more ...uncomfortable conversation that we all tend to have and the various situations in which we have them.

When Did Women Start Accepting Less

When Did Women Start Accepting Less

Name: Calypso | Location: NYC ,  |Question: Moxie,  I met "Bob" at the end of the summer. At first we hungout as friends. He'd invite me to happy hour w/ his friends and I'd do the same. One night while out and drinking we shared our first kiss. I went home with him that evening but nothing happened. He gave me pajamas and we shared the same bed but that was it. We didnt have sex.   We hungout a few more times after that.  The last time we hungout turned from simple happy hour drinks to 2 days in his apt - at the end of the night he asked me to come home with him (we both called off work and stayed glued on his sofa watching tv, eating food and making out from thurs night until sat morning BUT no sex again).  Since those 2 days we've texted some, Facebook'ed some but that is it.  I've invited him out a couple of times but he couldn't come (friends in town and sick). He texted me last week to see if I was hanging out but I wasn't.  I'm really